It's selective picking, Hamas got only you, Afghans had ethno-linguistic closeness to you (compared to Pashtuns), plus only support for Shi'as came from you.
Syria is not strictly secular - its dominated by Alawis in all power structures, its another matter if you count them as an ethnic group. Pakistan's founder wife was a Parsi, and Pakistan's first PM's wife was a Hindu, Pakistan's current PM had a Jewish wife, this proves nothing
Azerbaijan is practically atheist country due to USSR past plus Turkish speaking like your rival Turkey and close to it.