As earlier discussed, the one has nothing to do with the other! We can develop the radar, IRST or engines DE-LINKED from the fighter project itself, or aim them on projects with a more realistic timeframe (Mig 29K upgrades, AMCA), or simply use tech demo versions for development of techs. That however doesn't mean that the serial production fighter should be dependent on other developments with high risks of delays and cost increases.
Not to mention that it would be a huge burden for IAF, if the only commonality between Rafale and LCA, would be the Litening pod (also no indigenous tech).
We have to aim on more efficiency and commonality, to speed up indigenous projects as well es improve the defence of the country!