Sir, I think you are on wrong path, it is no insensitivity but hospitality, it is muslim culture and tradition to offer food to others while having food in one place. For us, when we come to know who excused and who likes. We offer them accordingly and not forcing as in India. Did you see the difference?
I know, some Hindus are consuming beef it is evident thru my personal experience and I think I don't need any guidance but of Allah and his Prophet.
Living in Muslim society is a blessing for us and not a problem, may be it seems problem thru a Hindus point of view only, but not force it upon us.