Yeah even those "very few" after a few sexual harrassment cases against women took the ire of the people very quickly.
You might think you're secular, but Pakistani secularism is very different than Turkish secularism. I know there aren't as many women on the streets in Pakistan as in Turkey. These punks are taking their phones out, following and filming women on the street and posting it online, making people very, very angry. If you don't want those "very few" from destroying the image, the reputation of your country you need to do everything you can to keep them from coming here.
I don't care what religious code you're following, nobody gets to come to our country and harrass our women or tell them how they should dress.
Ok let me address your post, point by point.
Those few tourists who were filming women were about a dozen men amongst 200,000 Pakistanis who visit Turkey every year. Two of them were already suspected by Pakistani federal authorities of being involved in human trafficking and were arrested after being deported from Turkey.
By no means is there any excuse for such behavior. I suspect those men are from illiterate slums came as a group and attained a discounted travel package promoted by the Turkish ministries of transport/tourism.
The Pakistani immigration officers who let them travel at the airport should have used their addresses and no previous visas on their passports to determine that they are bad news. The incidents last year can teach a valuable lesson. Let's hope it never happens again.
Turkey should also avoid giving discounted tourism packages to poorer Pakistanis to avoid this.
I am not sure what you mean by "I might think I am secular." I AM secular. I come from the urban upper class in Pakistan and we are as secular as anyone can get. We are also gender equal. Our women study and work alongside men and are fully educated on average.
We also commonly date outside of marriage.
Both my parents families are secular going back at least three generations. Although both my grandmothers observed evening prayers, they both had non-Muslims friends and got along great with them, sometimes just like family. Same is true for both my parents and myself. Religion plays almost no role in our lives.
If you mean as a society, we are divided between religious and secular and a mix of both. In the cities and suburbs, women tend to dress more casually, including foreign women when I was growing up there in the 90s.
Women hold annual fashion shows, sports events, swim in pools and at the beaches. Our country has no laws how women dress. You can find countless images & videos of them online. In the rural areas it's more conservative on average.
We also are the first Muslim country to elect a woman prime minister who was from a Shia family and lasted in office for eight years collectively. Also first Muslim country to have a woman as an army major. We also had the first all female flight crew in a Muslim country.
You claim that Turkish secularism is different from Pakistani secularism and I probably agree. Other Pakistanis well read on the topic also claim such such as this paper by a Pakistani student. You can click on the enlarge button to read the page properly:
https://www.scribd.com/document/512002525/Ataturk-vs-Jinnah#