Des is an Urdu word meaning own country. If a Pakistani uses it, it refers to Pakistan (his homeland.)
Sure that may be the origin of the word but as it is used in English vernacular, it does not mean Of My Homeland.
If a Native American comes and tells that he is a Desi, it won't mean he is from the homeland. It will mean he is confused. In English vernehcular Desi is used exclusively by the people of Indian Subcontinent and that includes Indians, Pakistani and Bangaldeshi.
Having lived in Pakistan, I don’t need to prove to a foreigner like yourself about our thinking as a nation.
I am not commenting on your nation. I am commenting on your nations diaspora living in foreign countries. Certainly I have quite a bit of visibility in that, they are living in my country and I see almost all the aspects of their life.
It is misused in the West and people are starting to understand the nuance.
Thats how vernaculars works. Do you think you are using all the words according to their original meaning? If that was the case no one would be "Surfing the web". Languages and their usage evolve.
The different between Pakistanis and Indians/BD is night and day. We have more in common with some European, Arab, Persian, Turkic, North African countries than you.
Pakistani have way less common with me certainly. I am of Scottish origin. Honestly, how is it possible that you will have more in common with people living thousand of Kilometres but not with people who were living with you in British empire of India. You may certainly have some commonality with Persians. But for a large chunk of Pakistani, closest people are the ones from Indian Punjab.
Indian Punjabis are mixed with Southern Dravidian races and tend to be darker and have Indian facial features like UP and Gujuratis.
Pakistanis Punjabis tend to be lighter and have more Irani facial features typical of Pukhtoons, Kashmiris, Baloch.
Sure! Lets see some faces from Lahore!
So here is what I did. I searched Lahore Market Crowd in images.google.com and too the first image with faces visible. It happens to be the first image itself.
Lets see Delhi Market Crowd. And apply the same process.
Here is one for London (Europe) BTW, to which you claim being close, the same process :
Now tell me which one is day/night difference.