Sir, I cannot justify the acts such as burning of Schools, Cinema halls, public places, hospitals, telephone exchanges, TV towers, Which was done in the start so that the people remain illeterate, ignorant, and placing RDX time bombs in the middle of the crowded market as the act of the struggle for Justice or the Independence struggle.
Now you might have realized till now, that I know the real groung reality, because I have been there and spend my good share of life there, the freedom fighting is no where close to what you are predicting.
The real Freedom fighters are long laid their weapons, and now they are playing their political power game, and what is left is just the jest of making some instance, which is termed as terrorism, yes according to most of the world, and then that small instance is shown with high contrast to create an impression that Kashmir is burning.
The ground reality is that only few people is needed to raise the Pakistani or ISIS flag in the Lal Chock and hide behind the public group to show that people wants to join the Pakistan, because they knew even if they are apprehended, they will be held with the judicial procedure, and not the military way. Heck I can assure you there are several times more death in the states like U.P and Bihar than the Kashmir.
Here is a wake up call for you. The Kashmiri people wants independence, and not the Pakistan, but they are already Independent, getting the previlage of 372, and their own government and hell lot of budget approved from the center. What you fail to understand is that India is the country with so many languages, culture, religion, that if it starts giving independence to everyone than there would be no India left, and Unity in Diversity is our culture and Power.