Yes, Pakistan has been obsessed with Indian Occupied Kashmir. Yes, there was a great loss of lives due to the obsession. Yes, there has been no determining result. But are we alone at fault for it? No. What about India's obsession with Kashmir. Why does India oppress the people and not let them choose? Do you not realize that this armed oppression will result in an armed struggle? India is just as much as blameworthy. But let's settle the difference! Pakistan did it for the people, India did it for the land. Our cause was just and right, yours was not.
Pakistan has been doing it for the people and for the sake of the Kashmiri Muslims; and if you think this is some kind of an anomaly, it really isn't. Just read up on Pakistan's history and interventions in UN for the cause of North African states, Indonesia, among many, many other Muslim states. It's just been how our purpose and ideology has been seen. There's a great detail of read on it, book going as far back as 1957, it's fascinating, really.
I don't think we can get it back right now, probably not in the near future. But, I have always maintained, personally, that freeing Kashmir is a big goal, and non erasable, permanent goal of Pakistan; because these people called out to us, and our people sacrificed for them, we have spilled blood for them, and we have done a lot more.
1. Either there should be a step-by-step process to peace, I liked the model proposed in Musharraf's era.
2. Or, we just have to focus on ourselves for now. It really depends, if we come out of this crisis, manage to understand our priorities then the future could be different, or who knows, this could stretch out for another 100 years.