14-year-old schoolboy commits suicide in Peshawar over marriage refusal

[Hell hound]

Co education should be discouraged

bhi marey abhi oper main pait kay hata hon kay co education na honey say ajj kal kay dor main kitna confidence issu a jata hay tusi fir sanu chak kay 1947 ch lay jao

 

[Zibago]

So you call it judging?
There's a thin line between judging and analyzing or evaluating, sir. Making assumptions? You're sounding really funny to me. 14 years old mind is really easy to change. And now you're telling him parents might have talked to him but he still did this. He was not a mature minded guy and where it is hard to change ones mind.



Here we go. @Zibago a jao aap Ki need h. :p

Haan honi chahiye bachiyon kay samnay teacher say bisti hoti hay to ziyada lagti hay :'(

 

[Moonlight]

Haan honi chahiye bachiyon kay samnay teacher say bisti hoti hay to ziyada lagti hay :'(

Hahahahaha. I feel the pain bro.

 

[LeGenD]

So you call it judging?
There's a thin line between judging and analyzing or evaluating, sir. Making assumptions? You're sounding really funny to me. 14 years old mind is really easy to change. And now you're telling him parents might have talked to him but he still did this. He was not a mature minded guy and where it is hard to change ones mind.

No, I am pointing out a problem that runs rampant among Pakistani people: premature judgment and concocting stories about others without much knowledge of ground realities.

Here we go. @Zibago a jao aap Ki need h. :p

Unn ki kiya need hai?

I have studied in co-education schools and educational institutes myself. Trust me! Girls are a distraction, specially during the teenage years. I can provide you medical rationale about this matter as well.

 

[Moonlight]

bhi marey abhi oper main pait kay hata hon kay co education na honey say ajj kal kay dor main kitna confidence issu a jata hay tusi fir sanu chak kay 1947 ch lay jao

Hume jab chezen fix karni nahi aty hum ban Kar dete Hain. :/

No, I am pointing out a problem that runs rampant among Pakistani people: premature judgement and concocting stories about others without much knowledge of ground realities.

You're being general about our society and I was specifically talking on this topic. Have a good one.

ki kiya need hai?

I have studied in co-education schools and educational institutes myself. Trust me! Girls are a distraction, specially during the teenage years. I can provide you medical rationale about this matter as well.

Aap ko Batna zarori nahi samjhty :p

Anyways, so you think we should ban co-education? Rather giving kids classes on getting mentally mature and how to deal with this distraction?

Sir jii I'm student of science and I know how it works but psychologist also researched on this.

 

[LeGenD]

You're being general about our society and I was specifically talking on this topic. Have a good one.

You clearly blamed the parents for the child's death without having any links with the family and/or investigation process. This is the mentality that I am talking about.

I can see your point, but parents are not always at fault for the death of their children.

Aap ko Batna zarori nahi samjhty :p

Interesting...

Anyways, so you think we should ban co-education? Rather giving kids classes on getting mentally mature and how to deal with this distraction?

Sir jii I'm student of science and I know how it works but psychologist also researched on this.

I am not suggesting banning co-education in its entirety but it is better to restrict it to Masters level education.

Individuals approaching Masters level in education, are normally mature enough to understand their responsibilities and less likely to be distracted by females.

 

[Zibago]

No, I am pointing out a problem that runs rampant among Pakistani people: premature judgment and concocting stories about others without much knowledge of ground realities.


Unn ki kiya need hai?

I have studied in co-education schools and educational institutes myself. Trust me! Girls are a distraction, specially during the teenage years. I can provide you medical rationale about this matter as well.

Main to ziyada parh kay jata tha takey academy mein un kay samnay bisti na ho
College ki khair the wahaan saray apnay jigar thay saray bhai ikhatey hey tests mein anda laitay thay

 

[Hell hound]

Hume jab chezen fix karni nahi aty hum ban Kar dete Hain. :/



You're being general about our society and I was specifically talking on this topic. Have a good one.



Aap ko Batna zarori nahi samjhty :p

Anyways, so you think we should ban co-education? Rather giving kids classes on getting mentally mature and how to deal with this distraction?

Sir jii I'm student of science and I know how it works but psychologist also researched on this.

Hume jab chezen fix karni nahi aty hum ban Kar dete Hain. :/



You're being general about our society and I was specifically talking on this topic. Have a good one.



Aap ko Batna zarori nahi samjhty :p

Anyways, so you think we should ban co-education? Rather giving kids classes on getting mentally mature and how to deal with this distraction?

Sir jii I'm student of science and I know how it works but psychologist also researched on this.

humara ek bara masla yeah bhi hay kay hum nay tab tak professionals kay pass nahi jan jab tak kay masla had say zada na barh jaye.yah pay sab say bahtar solution yah tha kay parent bachey ko samjhtay agar nahi samjhta tha to kisi Psychologist kay pass lay jatey to result kuch or hota.

 

[Moonlight]

I am not suggesting banning co-education in its entirety but it is better to restrict it to Masters level education.

Individuals approaching Masters level, are normally mature enough to understand their obligations and less likely to be distracted by females.

Don't you think so we need to learn to deal with matter rather avoiding it at all? Banning co-education till masters is not the solution. Respected sir.
We need to teach the kids at their young age to stay emotionally strong. We need to teach about ethics and how to deal with problems. This will eventually help them in their adulthood.

 

[LeGenD]

Main to ziyada parh kay jata tha takey academy mein un kay samnay bisti na ho
College ki khair the wahaan saray apnay jigar thay saray bhai ikhatey hey tests mein anda laitay thay

lol

Some individuals can cope with co-education without much problem and emerge as responsible citizens in the end but the "element of distraction" is always there (for the boys) and it affects teenagers the most.

 

[Moonlight]

humara ek bara masla yeah bhi hay kay hum nay tab tak professionals kay pass nahi jan jab tak kay masla had say zada na barh jaye.yah pay sab say bahtar solution yah tha kay parent bachey ko samjhtay agar nahi samjhta tha to kisi Psychologist kay pass lay jatey to result kuch or hota.

Exactly. We live on this term "Khudi theek ho jaye ga bacha hai". Time pe matters ko seriously nahi Lete.
Parents say it. Now who should be blamed? @LeGenD

 

[LeGenD]

Don't you think so we need to learn to deal with matter rather avoiding it at all? Banning co-education till masters is not the solution. Respected sir.
We need to teach the kids at their young age to stay emotionally strong. We need to teach about ethics and how to deal with problems. This will eventually help them in their adulthood.

Janab,

Hormonal aspects override everything.

 

[Hell hound]

lol

Some individuals can cope with co-education without much problem and emerge as responsible citizens in the end but the "element of distraction" is always there (for the boys) and it affects teenagers the most.

but without co education it will be hard for the children to adjust in our present world.i will no give you any one else's example i myself is facing that issue and bro it is not that easy to overcome believe me.

Janab,

Hormonal aspects override everything.

that what psychiatrist are there for.to deal with extreme hormonal issues.normally hormone are controllable. don't behave like you don't know that these hormone will still be there either you study in co education or in all boy or girl school.

 

[Moonlight]

Janab,

Hormonal aspects override everything.

Mainy apna teenage USA main co education main spend Kia h liken family or teaches ne Hume mentally strong Hona bhi seekha Rahe Thay. Hormones don't stay active like 24/7.
Admit it or not when kids are given enough of the attention by siblings and parents and teachers and are taught to deal with emotions. One can control this all.
We are lucky people to be Muslims. Hum to nimaz Se bhi Kam Le sakte. When kids are taught the basics of Islam and trust me they learn to overcome the teenage attraction. I agree that's very natural but we can't close our eyes and put them in a cage rather talking about the matter.

 

[Zibago]

but without co education it will be hard for the children to adjust in our present world.i will no give you any one else's example i myself is facing that issue and bro it is not that easy to overcome believe me.

Yeah i can understand that mujh say kehtay hain kuch larkay yaar us say kaho kal kay lecture kay notes do
Itna larkiyaan nahe sharmati larkoan say kitna kuch larkay larkiyon say sharmatay hain

 

[Dubious]

left him upset and with no other choice but to end his life.”

too young to get married.

1) So? This isnt news! This ACTUALLY happens in EVERY culture!
2) It is more of a case of a spoil brat who was never taught to hear a NO
3) One should praise the girl's parents for acknowledging she was too young!

Parents should learn to teach a child the meaning of NO
Parents should also teach a child to live with less instead of over suffocating him with crap so much that he thinks he has no choice but to die if he doesnt get more "items" added to his puny wants!