14-year-old schoolboy commits suicide in Peshawar over marriage refusal

[Hamza913]

What is with this obsession of getting married so young and early?

Because having a girlfriend would not be approved by anyone.

Perhaps if this boy was in a boys only school this would not have happened. This is why boys and girls should not be allowed to mix. Someone's feelings end up being hurt and emotions get the best of them.

That also has it's negatives, though. Best thing to do is educate children to avoid child marriage.

They dint reject, they did give him a good reason.
Teenage mind at work, sympathy for the poor family.

temporary depression, should have been counseled.

Damn right it should of been counselled.

 

[Zibago]

dafuc man mujhay abhi tak pehli girl friend nahi mali or log bc 14 saal ki umer main shadi pay khudkushian kar rahin hay baba lagta hay anpa system bohat slow hay bahi


imran bhi asi baten na kia kren. in ko sun app say mili ki saded cahat honey lag jati hay.(no homo feeling bro)

Hazoor baat ye hay aap 4 g kay zamaney mein kabotaroan wala system chala rahein hain

 

[Hell hound]

Hazoor baat ye hay aap 4 g kay zamaney mein kabotaroan wala system chala rahein hain

bhi sari zandgi saudia main guzarney kay bad ab to sukar kartey hain kabutri wala sytem chal raha hay warna humay to dar that kahin kabutaron kay sath hi na system chlana par jaye.par shukar hay asi nubat nahi ayi

 

[Zibago]

bhi sari zandgi saudia main guzarney kay bad ab to sukar kartey hain kabutri wala sytem chal raha hay warna humay to dar that kahin kabutaron kay sath hi na system chlana par jaye.par shukar hay asi nubat nahi ayi

AIk hint daita hoan confidence say jhoot bolna sekh lo bara kaam aye ga kiyon @Ray_of_Hope

 

[Hell hound]

AIk hint daita hoan confidence say jhoot bolna sekh lo bara kaam aye ga kiyon @Ray_of_Hope

yar app confidence say jhoot ki bat kartey ho mugh say confidence kaya wasy hi kisi larki say bat hi nahi kar hoti.yah sara baduon ka kasoor hay bhi sari zandgi kisi larki say melney kya bat tak nahi karney di to ab jab Pakistan aye hain to bas bilkul hi bay bas hain yahan to competition hi bhot hay or larkon ka name to itna badnam hay kay koi larkon say bat kartay bhi dar lagt hay pata nahi kab shor macha day or muft main us kay 2 number bhion say phanti lag jaye.

 

[Moonlight]

You are quick to blame parents for an incident, aren't you?

It is premature to accuse parents of being irresponsible in this matter without knowing them in?

Quick? A 14 years old suicided and you're telling me it's quick to blame his parents? Who is responsible if not them? Sir parents are responsible for this with my point of view. It's 2016 and parents themselves are too much into social media and cell phone and most of the time kids are being neglected. Even researchers have researched on this.
A good brought up can't make a kid go so cheap.

 

[Zibago]

yar app confidence say jhoot ki bat kartey ho mugh say confidence kaya wasy hi kisi larki say bat hi nahi kar hoti.yah sara baduon ka kasoor hay bhi sari zandgi kisi larki say melney kya bat tak nahi karney di to ab jab Pakistan aye hain to bas bilkul hi bay bas hain yahan to competition hi bhot hay or larkon ka name to itna badnam hay kay koi larkon say bat kartay bhi dar lagt hay pata nahi kab shor macha day or muft main us kay 2 number bhion say phanti lag jaye.

Bhai ham to 6 class say co academies mein parh rahay hain confidence to aa hi jata hay oper say at 17 i was already working in a co environment ab uni mein meray aur do chaar larkoon kay elawa ziyada hesitate kartain hain par mujhay dar nahe lagta mein to sedha unsay notes leta hoan jo baat karni ho karta hoan unsay darna kiyon kiya kha jayein ge ?
Jub aap aik co environment mein kaam kartay ho to aap mein khudi confidence a jata hay

 

[waleed3601]

So blame everything else but no concrete solution for the problem at hand?

No wonder, so-called liberalism eventually leads to dictatorship.

blame everything else? but i have blamed exactly the roots of the problem. please prove me wrong if you can.
and that last comment, what does that even mean? please elaborate.

 

[Moonlight]

I remember meeting him a few days before he killed himself he lost some serious weigjt and he was the shadow of a man he once was the dude who was a paka jugti and always used to smile had red eyes from crying so often
Nan i still cant forget that look her mom gave me when i visited his place to offer namaze janaza

That's so heartbreaking man.
Why didn't you guys talk to him. Seemingly, his isolation made him to do this. I am sure if someone was there for him verbally, and emotionally he wouldn't have done this. After such incidents people need moral support and unfortunately we leave them on their own and that's the worst thing you can do in this situation. May Allah forgives his sins and give him higher rank of Janah.

 

[Hell hound]

Bhai ham to 6 class say co academies mein parh rahay hain confidence to aa hi jata hay oper say at 17 i was already working in a co environment ab uni mein meray aur do chaar larkoon kay elawa ziyada hesitate kartain hain par mujhay dar nahe lagta mein to sedha unsay notes leta hoan jo baat karni ho karta hoan unsay darna kiyon kiya kha jayein ge ?
Jub aap aik co environment mein kaam kartay ho to aap mein khudi confidence a jata hay

yehi to faraq hay app kay of hamaery environment main 18 saal saudia rah kay hum who wala confidence kahan say lain jo app logon kay pass hay hum say to bank main zarori kam kay laye kisi larki say baat karna azab hota hay.waqay yar thora sa free environment hona cheay nahi tu hum phir asi hi society bana lay gay jo opposite 50% population say baat bhi na kar sakti ho gi.

 

[LeGenD]

Quick? A 14 years old suicided and you're telling me it's quick to blame his parents? Who is responsible if not them? Sir parents are responsible for this with my point of view. It's 2016 and parents themselves are too much into social media and cell phone and most of the time kids are being neglected. Even researchers have researched on this.
A good brought up can't make a kid go so cheap.

It is easy to "assume" things about others without knowing them in person.

You are not close enough to this family to judge them.

The late boy's parents might have attempted to reason with him but the boy might have been too much emotionally conflicted to look for an opportunity to end his life.

My point is that we should drop the "culture" about making assumptions about others without knowing them in person and/or proper investigation.

 

[abbasniazi]

Co education should be discouraged

 

[Moonlight]

It is easy to "assume" things about others without knowing them in person.

You are not close enough to this family to judge them.

The late boy's parents might have attempted to reason with him but the boy might have been too much emotionally conflicted to look for an opportunity to end his life.

My point is that we should drop the "culture" about making assumptions about others without knowing them in person and/or proper investigation.

So you call it judging?
There's a thin line between judging and analyzing or evaluating, sir. Making assumptions? You're sounding really funny to me. 14 years old mind is really easy to change. And now you're telling him parents might have talked to him but he still did this. He was not a mature minded guy and where it is hard to change ones mind.

Co education should be discouraged

Here we go. @Zibago a jao aap Ki need h. :p

 

[Hell hound]

It is easy to "assume" things about others without knowing them in person.

You are not close enough to this family to judge them.

The late boy's parents might have attempted to reason with him but the boy might have been too much emotionally conflicted to look for an opportunity to end his life.

My point is that we should drop the "culture" about making assumptions about others without knowing them in person and/or proper investigation.

not gonna happen bro its in our Pakistani blood to assume with out knowing someone.

 

[LeGenD]

blame everything else? but i have blamed exactly the roots of the problem. please prove me wrong if you can.
and that last comment, what does that even mean? please elaborate.

Here is a response to each of your point:

1. The boy obtained the gun from a guard. Gun laws are not at fault here.
2. Easy to blame the parents. Do you know them in person?
3. Eliminate co-education up to graduation level (16 years of education)