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A number of women and girls at risk of forced marriage have avoided going abroad by concealing spoons in their underwear at airport security, according to a campaign group.

Karma Nirvana, a Derby-based charity that supports victims of forced marriage, advises people who ring its helpline to hide a spoon in order to set off metal detectors at British airports. The group says that its recommendation has prevented some women from being spirited overseas.

Last week ministers warned that young people were at the highest risk of being taken abroad for a forced marriage during the school holidays. The government's forced marriage unit received 400 reports between June and August last year, out of an annual total of 1,500.

No one knows for sure how many Britons are forced into marriage each year. Estimates range from 1,500 to 5,000. More than a third of those affected are thought to be aged under 16.

Speaking to the AFP news agency, Natasha Rattu, Karma Nirvana's operations manager, said that when worried youngsters ring the charity's helpline, "if they don't know exactly when it may happen or if it's going to happen, we advise them to put a spoon in their underwear.

"When they go through security, it will highlight this object in a private area and, if 16 or over, they will be taken to a safe space where they have that one last opportunity to disclose they're being forced to marry."

The government wants teachers, doctors and airport staff to be conscious of the issue of forced marriages over the summer break.

Aneeta Prem, founder and president of Freedom Charity, an organisation that deals with the prevention of forced marriage through education and training, believes that summer is a crucial time for children and young adults.

"Children go out of people's consciousness over summer because they are away for such a long time," she told the Guardian. "The victim may think they are going away to a family wedding, not knowing it is actually their wedding. And when they go they are often gone for a long time and don't come back until they are pregnant."

Campaigners fear official statistics on the number of forced marriages of UK citizens are just the tip of the iceberg, partly because children do not want to report their parents to the authorities or have little idea where to go for help.

Prem said: "Nobody knows what the true figure is because so many young victims are terrified of coming forward. But it is definitely much, much higher than what is reported."

Freedom Charity has produced an app for potential victims of forced marriage or other abuse. It is also aimed at friends of those women who may be at risk and professionals such as teachers. Since the app was launched in March, more than 1,000 people have contacted Freedom Charity using the technology. The charity also has a 24-hour helpline.

The Karma Nirvana charity usually fields 6,500 calls a year from around Britain. This year, it has already reached that number.

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Parents know better for their children than some Aneeta Prem (Prem? LOL)
 
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Parents know better for their children than some Aneeta Prem (Prem? LOL)

'forced' marriage is illegal in UK. Its better that the girl is taken to a shelter than committing suicide afterwards.

good force marriage is insult of human and unforgivable crime .
I think UK govt is monitoring this case, too many such cases in Uk.
 
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'forced' marriage is illegal in UK. Its better that the girl is taken to a shelter than committing suicide afterwards.


I think UK govt is monitoring this case, too many such cases in Uk.


Some virgin girls needed little pursuation and i dont think its that bad.. still better than getting pregnant by unknown.
 
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Some virgin girls needed little pursuation and i dont think its that bad.. still better than getting pregnant by unknown.
its not only girls.. its also boys whose lives are ruined because they are forced to marry their cousin or some random girl...
He might give consent there but once back.. the village girl will be in soup.. :coffee:
 
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its not only girls.. its also boys whose lives are ruined because they are forced to marry their cousin or some random girl...
He might give consent there but once back.. the village girl will be in soup.. :coffee:

I dont think situation is as bad as portrayed as most boys and girls are going to college these days, and I can assure you most Bengali girls in UK are well educated which not the case for boys who are usually on drugs and gang.
 
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I dont think situation is as bad as portrayed as most boys and girls are going to college these days, and I can assure you most Bengali girls in UK are well educated which not the case for boys who are usually on drugs and gang.
forced marriage is mostly a pakistani/ME/north indian phenomena, not sure about bangladesh..
 
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Some virgin girls needed little pursuation and i dont think its that bad.. still better than getting pregnant by unknown.

well hope you are aware that according to Islam ,a marriage that the girl willingly didn't gave her consent to it is not valid and is not different with no marriage .

and it's the same between all of Islam sect as holy prophet himself decreed such.
 
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There is a massive targeted campaign already in progress. Posters for which are strategically placed near South Asian communities,schools near universities.
 
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is it also not prevalent in arabs...?

Depends on the society class. Not too sure of that. But it does remind me of the girls "sold" into marriage from India and Pakistan to Arabs.. Seen that movie "Well done Abba" by Irani?
 
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is it also not prevalent in arabs...?

Depends on the society class. Not too sure of that. But it does remind me of the girls "sold" into marriage from India and Pakistan to Arabs.. Seen that movie "Well done Abba" by Irani?
 
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