Which also begs the question that, with your own vote being clear, flying two union jacks, as to why don't you let the Pakistanis decide that question, instead of preaching to them from such a liberal country yourself? Or you could try and move back, so as to influence the society in whichever way you would prefer it go.
That's the solution. However, I don't think the elites would like the answer. It's not so much that the answer would threaten Pakistan (no, I think it would strengthen it). Rather, the answer would threaten the elites. However illiterate and helpless the rural worker is, he knows, at some level, his feudal overlord is a leech. However aloof the naukar may seem, he knows that you got to where you did because of who you know and who your dad knows. They all know there's a sense of unfairness at play, and when they see the elites (which includes well-to-do middle class people, by the way) play around, they're agitated.
You can't enforce ignorance forever as the victim's energy builds up until they reach a renaissance -- or a revolution. In either case, the ones to lose the most are those who've lived privileged lives in Pakistan, i.e., gotten benefits and perks from the system, a system that weakens the country, but they don't really want to destroy. I say this as someone who is a result of that privilege.
When Umar ibn Abdul-Aziz (rrh) became Caliph, he revoked the special stipends and grants that went to his relatives in Banu Ummaya. The elites confronted Umar (2), and said (paraphrasing), "You weren't complaining when you were getting these benefits. But as you became the Caliph, you decided to revoke them?" And Umar (2) responded (paraphrasing), "I took the benefits when I had no power to change things. Now that I do, I'm revoking them because they're wrong."
So folks like myself are just doing that... Benefit from the system when we couldn't do anything to change it, but now, tear that crap down Lol. But seriously, if we ever get the power, we should leave the direction to the Pakistani public. The whole public.