itaskol
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it is like you are rejected by a girl but pay loads of bucks to keep her! will the relationship last long and a pleasant ending for both?
Paying bribes to get things done is the worst choice for the society! It rots the system further!
not similar to your example. as my country man, you should understand things better.
I can tell you another story with my wife.
I am rejected by the girls mother. because she thinked I was not wealthy enough to marry her daughter.
but I love her daughter (and we also want to get married asap), so what I have done: is bought a residence for her mother to get her agreement.
problem got solved fast. and I lost nothing, because after 20 oder 30 years, I probably can get the residence back.
(deep in my soul: I also feel it very sick.)
and Pay "bribes" does not mean pay cash.
the customers officer , they dont ask for cash, even they are indeed corrupt (but most of them are not stupid, if they asked for payment or cash. they are all up) legally they are still "clean". corruption is legally not always "guilty". that is also one reason, why fighting this kind of small corruption is so hard.
what people like me have to do, is neither paying cash to them. ( no one is that stupid to pay cash direct to them, but in "indirect" way)
what they received is a indirect "favor". but then what I received is a big favor.
usually to get things done faster, is find someone who has good relation with them,and then invite them for expensive dinner or something else.( you got your chance to explain to them)
in my view: it is only crime. only if the officer asked for money. or I paid money direct to them.
this kind of "little money" which costed me, can also be called as relationship devoloping cost.
your definition of "breaking laws" is very narrow.
and btw your definition of "patriotism“ is also very narrow.
- deep in my soul, I also hate and ‘love“ this situation in china.
I worked long time for shipping agency in Hamburg in Germany, and after I return to china.
It took me long time to get used of it.