What separates Indian men from guys in China

[Aepsilons]

I like his tats. I know tattoos have historical baggage in Japan, is it still that way?

I've got a fox somewhere on me.

Yes, yes. Tattooing is part of the Jomon culture , and Ainu culture of Japan. When the Yayoi colonized Japan some 3000 years ago, they adopted this tattooing aspect from the Jomon / Ainu.

I've got a fox somewhere on me.

hahaha, really? can i ask you what did the fox say? or your tattoo? ehem.

 

[Fenrir]

hahaha, really? can i ask you what did the fox say? or your tattoo? ehem.

It said "ow", or at least I did. I'd get banned for showing you an actual pic, since it's near... um, yes. It's on my back, but a bit low. It looks a lot like this:

I'm thinking of getting another on my back or arms, pitch me some ideas.

*On a side note, have you ever seen Ms. Sven? Girl's got some amazing ink!

 

[prima99]

Bro, you're a better man than me, I have no problem if my wife supports me

And what would she do sitting at home all day? Think of new ways to nag me? ( just joking, don't kill me)

No, I prefer someone who has her own life, I don't want to BE her life.

actually that's the opposite. my view on Men's role to protect the Women. i don't really think it's good for Husband and Wives to have their own life. marriage is something to carry on together. those who is ready to marry better knows that they're no longer have a life of their own, but carry on with life together with their partner.

think it like an RPG (Role Playing Game). two Warriors aren't good, but when teamed up with Healer makes a great team.

 

[Aepsilons]

i am, for one, prefer to support my (future) wife if we did get married in the future. i probably must give 95% of my salary to my wife, no problem for me. heck, even if someday i've become a Japanese citizen, might as well train my skill in Horse Bet Racing

I wouldn't give my wife access to my bank account --- perhaps a shared access. I'd like to keep my own finances as I make substantial amount of money. Would always want to know what's going on with my finances. As for savings, that's something my wife would never be allowed to touch.

*On a side note, have you ever seen Ms. Sven? Girl's got some amazing ink!

Yea, i saw a picture of Kai's woman. She's tattooed , too. Kai looks good, the beard suits him well, lol.

It said "ow", or at least I did. I'd get banned for showing you an actual pic, since it's near... um, yes. It's on my back, but a bit low. It looks a lot like this:

Sugoi!!

Watashi wa kyomi ga aru......

 

[Sky lord]

actually that's the opposite. my view on Men's role to protect the Women. i don't really think it's good for Husband and Wives to have their own life. marriage is something to carry on together. those who is ready to marry better knows that they're no longer have a life of their own, but carry on with life together with their partner.

think it like an RPG (Role Playing Game). two Warriors aren't good, but when teamed up with Healer makes a great team.

Ok buddy, you seem like a very nice person , may you find what you are looking for.

I wouldn't give my wife access to my bank account --- perhaps a shared access. I'd like to keep my own finances as I make substantial amount of money. Would always want to know what's going on with my finances. As for savings, that's something my wife would never be allowed to touch.

I hope you will be able to tell us how that works out for you. In my limited experience, most women will find a way to know exactly what's up with your savings account.

 

[Aepsilons]

I'm thinking of getting another on my back or arms, pitch me some ideas.

Nani ka ga anata no me o kyatchi ? I meant to say is um, perhaps a viking symbol?

 

[prima99]

@prima99 ,

Also Irezumi... hehehe

I thought about getting one.

Irezumi also popular in Surabaya

can't find their sites though. these are some links that i found, but only in Indonesian Language

Irezumi Shadow skin art & pride - Kota Surabaya - Tato & Tindik | Facebook

Queen Of Tattoos - Tattoos Magazine in Bali | MagicInk Magz

 

[Aepsilons]

I hope you will be able to tell us how that works out for you. In my limited experience, most women will find a way to know exactly what's up with your savings account.

I'd give my wife access to my checking account(s), even a copy of my credit card(s), but when it comes to my savings , that's something that will only be reserved for myself.

And before i marry , i will expect to sign a prenuptial. I have lots of assets , and i will not be parted with my properties in case i do divorce in the future.

Don't want to sound mean or anything, but a man must think practically. Don't ever allow your head to be in the 'clouds'.

Irezumi also popular in Surabaya

can't find their sites though. these are some links that i found, but only in Indonesian Language

Irezumi Shadow skin art & pride - Kota Surabaya - Tato & Tindik | Facebook

Queen Of Tattoos - Tattoos Magazine in Bali | MagicInk Magz

Yes, i remember one Indonesian-Japanese member @madokafc mentioning this a while ago.

@madokafc is part Japanese , her grandfather is a fellow Nihonjin, actually.

 

[Fenrir]

I wouldn't give my wife access to my bank account --- perhaps a shared access. I'd like to keep my own finances as I make substantial amount of money. Would always want to know what's going on with my finances. As for savings, that's something my wife would never be allowed to touch.

Smart man, I've got expensive tastes and can be a bit impulsive, you'd have no money after one week of marriage with me.

Nani ka ga anata no me o kyatchi ? I meant to say is um, perhaps a viking symbol?

Viking symbol? Hmm, my beard is getting a bit thin. Most runes, such as the Wolfsangel, aren't too well received in Europe though, on account of their misuse during WWII by the Germans. So I do have to be careful about that when I travel.

 

[Aepsilons]

Smart man, I've got expensive tastes and can be a bit impulsive, you'd have no money after one week of marriage with me.

LOL, but i think it might be worth it ?

Viking symbol? Hmm, my beard is getting a bit thin. Most runes, such as the Wolfsangel, aren't too well received in Europe though, on account of their misuse during WWII by the Germans. So I do have to be careful about that when I travel.

Hmm, id say keep it bare, keep it pure. Nice white skin...

 

[Sky lord]

I'd give my wife access to my checking account(s), even a copy of my credit card(s), but when it comes to my savings , that's something that will only be reserved for myself.

And before i marry , i will expect to sign a prenuptial. I have lots of assets , and i will not be parted with my properties in case i do divorce in the future.

Don't want to sound mean or anything, but a man must think practically. Don't ever allow your head to be in the 'clouds'.

Hmmmm...you have that much money....well good for you.

. What would I say in my prenup? Maybe share my student loans? But no matter, whoever marries me will be one lucky woman, after all how many handsome, kind, sensitive, witty, well educated guys are out there....now all I have to do is convince someone that I am all that....proving to be harder than I bargained for

 

[Aepsilons]

Hmmmm...you have that much money....well good for you.

. What would I say in my prenup? Maybe share my student loans? But no matter, whoever marries me will be one lucky woman, after all how many handsome, kind, sensitive, witty, well educated guys are out there....now all I have to do is convince someone that I am all that....proving to be harder than I bargained for

Hehehe, go with what your heart tells you, my friend. Remember that there is 7 billion people in the world; and all we are looking for is just that one puzzle piece to complete us.

Happy hunting.


Regards,

 

[Echo_419]

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A recent study titled 'The Ideal Man' by global market research firm TNS explains through a comparative analysis what it means to be a man in the two cultures:

How are male and female identities defined?

In India, men are governed by the macho ideal of strength and muscularity, while the feminine is voluptuous and sensual yet modest.

In China, men can be quite androgynous and the demarcation between men and women less pronounced.

How do men bond with other men?

Male bonding is defined by the "boyswill-be-boys" themes and "permission to behave badly" in India. It's more about "breaking free" from the restrictions and obligations imposed by traditional roles than bonding with one's compatriots.

Chinese male get-togethers are less aggressive in comparison, marked by forms of 'ebullient excess' and friendly competition. Men can demonstrate qualities that are normally kept under wraps: strength, loyalty, and fortitude are vividly on display.

What is his ultimate purpose?

In India, spiritual wealth correlates strongly with material poverty.

In China, you must be rich to honour your ancestors and dependents. Your ability to donate a solid pure-gold statue of Buddha to a temple counts.

What gives the Ideal Man his X-factor?

Street smarts rule in India. The making do, shortcuts and work-arounds characterise Indian men.

In China, he is imagined to be motivated by ideas of selfimprovement, which are widely expressed in the practice of artistic forms such as calligraphy, Tai Chi or piano.

What is the Ideal Man's modus operandi?

The ideal Chinese man must, above all, be strategic and prudent. The ideal Indian man can be compared to the warrior, with a will to battle. He can also be the "benevolent father-figure" with occasional bouts of "uncontrollable anger"

What separates Indian men from guys in China - The Economic Times

Indian men can speak more languages

 

[prima99]

I'd give my wife access to my checking account(s), even a copy of my credit card(s), but when it comes to my savings , that's something that will only be reserved for myself.

And before i marry , i will expect to sign a prenuptial. I have lots of assets , and i will not be parted with my properties in case i do divorce in the future.

Don't want to sound mean or anything, but a man must think practically. Don't ever allow your head to be in the 'clouds'.

seconded. i'm quite generous enough for my wife to keep 95% of my earnings, but she'll have NO WAY to get, let alone know the remaining 5%. i'm going to turn whatever pennies i have in pocket with Luck. now THAT is challenging (well, but i do want to make it clear that should someone marry me, she needs to resupply the Booze and always follow whatever fetish that i want )

 

[Sky lord]

seconded. i'm quite generous enough for my wife to keep 95% of my earnings, but she'll have NO WAY to get, let alone know the remaining 5%. i'm going to turn whatever pennies i have in pocket with Luck. now THAT is challenging (well, but i do want to make it clear that should someone marry me, she needs to resupply the Booze and always follow whatever fetish that i want )

Ok I change my mind.....you are not a very nice guy