Song Hong
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I am amazed at some of the responses. I see the moderator has kindly removed the quote from a Chinese member comparing blacks to chimpanzees. Thank you for that.
Feminism is not about emasculating men or not having children.
It is about the choice to live your life as you wish too. Why should that be a bad thing so long as you are not hurting anyone else in the process?
I agree that both men and women will regret their choice not to have children. At the end of the day your career or promotions cannot fulfill you in the way that having a family can. not everyone but many will wish they had made a different choice. A minority of people will never regret it . Their life story will be a lesson for the next generation.
I cannot however understand why it is so important to take away a woman's choice while it would be inconceivable to do the same for a man.
In Scandinavian countries which have the highest equality, women tend to choose differently to men. They do more child care and more housework than men. The point is there is no law that makes them do it. They just choose differently.
So why not leave it at that. If a woman wants to marry an African, let her, what concern is it of yours. He may be a better human being than many here. If her dream is to be a surgeon or a housewife the law of the land should leave her alone.
Yeah thanks. I will read it.
I do have a balanced view but when these hormonal young men go around saying that "caging" women is good for society, I feel I have to speak up. Thanks again for the read.
Your civilization demands women to fulfill their duty of child bearing -- period.
Civilizations that allowed women the freedom to choose has long failed to survive to these days.
You are not aware of the cruelty of life. The peace today is not taken for granted -- this is a result of sacrifice of man who laid down their life. Just 150 years ago, all villages are still fighting micro warfare. It is estimated that 10 millions death in China in one century.
Man has the duty to take up arms and women, to bear off springs.
To say you can choose is sort of individualistic.