Trending: Bollywood 'soft ****' angers some Pakistanis

[Azizam]

People have their own preferences.

I like bad action movies from Hollywood. It calms me. That's just me. 


If you don't masturbate. That means you are gay.

Exactly! Gay or not it's normal human behavior. Besides it's totally harmless. The only sin I know in my life is damaging somebody else or damaging myself.

 

[Falcon29]

It's very normal and harmless if done within limits. I don't know why people make such a big mess out of natural human behavior. Extreme conservative views make less sense nowadays in 21st century.

Masturbation - Is Masturbation Normal or Harmful? Who Masturbates? Why Do People Masturbate?

It's is a normal practice considering the biological aspect. If you compare yourself to an animal, then yes , it is normal.

But, try to fit this in a pious lifestyle, it does not work at all and will corrupt your heart and mind. **** and long amounts of it can damage your mind badly. Doesn't matter if you don't realize it. It's happening. It gives people bad thoughts and bad views towards other people. You also waste a considerable amount of time in your life for no reason.

Just wait a few years and get married. A few years are barely anything. Life is short don't waste doing this act.

I'm guessing you're probably a Hindu. In our Islamic way of life this is considered a major sin. All prophets. Jesus, Moses, and Muhammad looked down upon it. God also compares such people to animals.

The modern day argument has no basis to it, you can be pious in a modern world. People who come up with that excuses are actually some of the worst people who damage their society. It's amending your own religion without justification unless you're weak faithed. Weak faith people's will justify things over and fire again until they completely disavow their religion and become unofficial agnostics or people who are obsessed with life.

You don't have to be religious to be a person who avoids this act. 

Exactly! Gay or not it's normal human behavior. Besides it's totally harmless. The only sin I know in my life is damaging somebody else or damaging myself.

Because you dumbed down your own beliefs.

 

[Zabaniyah]

And I love ****.

In fact, I wake up to it every morning.

Nighty night trolls.

 

[Falcon29]

People have their own preferences.

I like bad action movies from Hollywood. It calms me. That's just me. 


If you don't masturbate. That means you are gay.

That's absurd. It's not difficult to avoid this act, keep yourself busy. Allah values people who fight their instincts.

It's because you have yourself so drowned into this act that you raised it to a new level.

I was going to get married this summer, but decided to wait it out until I finish my studies. You need to visit mosques at least every Friday, keep yourself preoccupied with family and good friends. Also keep yourself sort of stressed out with school work. This way you keep your priorities straight. And your mind pure.

There's no excuse for an adult Muslim male not to attend Friday prayer on time. These are the words of our Prophet.

 

[Peaceful Civilian]

.Allah will tell them to enter Hell with the people who are .

Please Keep religion out from this thread. i don't need paradise or hell... I will throw you in hell with the help of Allah. So don't worry. Allah is my friend not yours..

 

[Azizam]

It's is a normal practice considering the biological aspect. If you compare yourself to an animal, then yes , it is normal.

But, try to fit this in a pious lifestyle, it does not work at all and will corrupt your heart and mind. **** and long amounts of it can damage your mind badly. Doesn't matter if you don't realize it. It's happening. It gives people bad thoughts and bad views towards other people. You also waste a considerable amount of time in your life for no reason.

Just wait a few years and get married. A few years are barely anything. Life is short don't waste doing this act.

I'm guessing you're probably a Hindu. In our Islamic way of life this is considered a major sin. All prophets. Jesus, Moses, and Muhammad looked down upon it. God also compares such people to animals.

The modern day argument has no basis to it, you can be pious in a modern world. People who come up with that excuses are actually some of the worst people who damage their society. It's amending your own religion without justification unless you're weak faithed. Weak faith people's will justify things over and fire again until they completely disavow their religion and become unofficial agnostics or people who are obsessed with life.

You don't have to be religious to be a person who avoids this act. 


Because you dumbed down your own beliefs.

I agree with the post up to some certain extent but as eating, sleeping and other day-to-day activities, masturbation is also a very natural human behavior. What you're talking about is exceeding the limit which is dangerous to yourself and in a way to the society as well. In my short life I have been with many religious people belonged to all the major faiths but one thing I noticed was that they try to justify their wrongdoings through religious scriptures that are actually capable of creating damage than simple and harmless acts like masturbation. For example I have seen religious people including Muslims spend huge amounts of money just for the service of religion while they are so reluctant to spend a penny for education of a poor human being and they are hell bent on hating each other.

 

[ResurgentIran]

It's normal for people to have feelings like that. It's because they have an misunderstanding of Islam and they expose themselves to too many ideas which are just thoughts people brainstorm.

Islam does give a feeling of inner peace, and also a feeling with God. But people manufacture this idea in their head that the peaceful feeling comes with more and more spirituality. They accumulate to this.

So people will think the first solution is more prayer and read more Quran and then it's like they run out of fuel mess up sin and commit to the process again. The problem too is nobody else is offering them guidance besides telling them pray with your heart. This and that. Common things.

What people miss out on is that Islam is not just a spiritual life, it's a balanced way of life. Having good manners is Islam. Respecting parents is Islam. Making informed decisions is Islam. Helping people is Islam. Everything you do in your daily life is Islam. So you need to reach a balance. And realize our Prophet(SAW) told us to follow his Sunnah. His Sunnah isn't about wearing the clothes he wore or growing beard only. Those are little things. It's his manners, the way he dealt with people, how he taught and responded to people. It's many things and it's easy to learn it but difficult to follow it consistently. That's the problem we as Muslims have.

You have to know there is no end or point where you reach a status. We don't know what our status is. Allah(SW) gives us our whole lifetime to keep struggling for more and more. It's a lifetime struggle. Don't think about the afterlife too much, think of what God told us to do. And remember you don't need to feel so spiritual all the time. Stay calm throughout the day and balanced and take it day by day. Remember Allah, once you remember him he is with you wherever you go. Say alhamdillah several times a day, or say the shahada when you wake up and sleep and say bismallah whenever you go out, say Ya Allah Ya Kareem and more.

Start with this brother, this and 5 prayers a day. Don't listen to the shaytaan, keep in mind the shaytaan isn't a red scary looking demon. I believe this is your instinct which tells you to do opposite of what you do. We don't know exactly what it is. But, it tells you after you sin and go to pray for example, you will hear a voice in your head telling you that you just committed a big sin are you out of your mind and you want to pray you think Allah will accept your prayer. This is the instinct you need to fight.

So try this, 5 prayers a day spread out with small suras as a start. And I'm guessing you were born Shia, I'm not gonna hold that against you. Don't worry, me and you are buddies on this forum. What I want you to do is forget all sect stuff as it is too much information and leave those decisions to later. What you need to do like most of us are doing is work on your imaan. Do what the Prophet told us to do, pray 5 times, remember God, fast, and a few more things which naturally you will catch up to.

Eventually you will be and soon you will see that Islam starts you out and changes you as a man. You will start wanting to be a controlled and more respectful person and people will praise you. What you will forget from the back of your mind is all of this you're doing for Allah without knowing it. Allah will reward us inshallah . Remember brother religion is easy. And Allah is real.

I had a moment in life which I won't get into, it was probably the worse period in my life, and no I was doing haram. It was basically a depressing period. I prayed and cried prayer and I read a duah that Allah will send an angel to protect you during your sleep. Not necessarily from physical things, it's from jinn and stuff like that. I slept along that night before my family made it home. And I'm know people may dismiss this and accuse me of things, but, I woke up three hours after midnight and I felt a prescience behind me but I couldn't move. I had a feeling of fear but peace and security at the same time. Then I had a message sent to my heart from above. I felt something above me high above me. Wallahi I just had this feeling in my heart and it arrived in my heart then translated it self into 'I am here and have been watching' something along that line. It was several translations. I slept one minute after that.

I woke up the whole next day I didn't feel normal, I kept thinking about it and it was something in never experienced.

Overtime you will want to become a better and better person. Allah says he prevents us from fear, he does. We go into the next life with less fear and we have courage to meet death. All because Allah guided us towards this path. And he is a fair judge, he will show you how he guided on the last day and he will allow sinners to present their case. Something's he will forget some he won't.

So I urge you to stop that practice. And start our what I told you to do. First take a shower though. Dedicate yourself. You won't feel empty anymore and you will feel you have a cause in life. Good luck brother.

Yeah I was born Shia, but I dont really think about this sect stuff. I think Shia and Sunni do not have to necessarily agree (which they never will LOL) but somehow learn to co-exist. Just live and let live

I want to make clear that I dont really live a decadent life-style, even if Im not really Muslim. I still stay clear of alcohol, pork and stuff. I dont do drugs either. And respect of my parents is a given, its part of my culture or just Middle East culture in general. If I ever at one time disrespect any of my parents, I feel deep regret and shame afterwards and I appoligize.
I also try to do good deeds, and be compassionate and friendly to people.
For example my support for Palestine comes out of my own sense of right and wrong, and where I see an injustice. I think even if some of us do not have religion, we still have set of moral values. And off course I used to be Muslim, so I still have some vaues of Islam in me.

Anyway I will definately reflect on what you said. You wrote a very inspirational post. Thanks my good friend.

 

[Azizam]

That's absurd. It's not difficult to avoid this act, keep yourself busy. Allah values people who fight their instincts.

It's because you have yourself so drowned into this act that you raised it to a new level.

I was going to get married this summer, but decided to wait it out until I finish my studies. You need to visit mosques at least every Friday, keep yourself preoccupied with family and good friends. Also keep yourself sort of stressed out with school work. This way you keep your priorities straight. And your mind pure.

There's no excuse for an adult Muslim male not to attend Friday prayer on time. These are the words of our Prophet.

Well, you can't force your religion on others. If he is a good person and has a lifestyle harmless to everyone what good would religion do? You people instigate fear of hell through religious scriptures while creating a hell on this earth by middle age religious practices. I have no problem with anyone for being religious but there should be a fine line between practicing your religion and forcing it on others.

 

[Armstrong]

It's very normal and harmless if done within limits. I don't know why people make such a big mess out of natural human behavior. Extreme conservative views make less sense nowadays in 21st century.

Masturbation - Is Masturbation Normal or Harmful? Who Masturbates? Why Do People Masturbate?

I heard that @Ayush broke his in the act !

Then @Dillinger had to glue it back on !

 

[Azizam]

I heard that @Ayush nearly broke his in the act !

Then @Dillinger had to glue it back on !

i heard he fitted an artificial one after failing to glue

 

[Dillinger]

I heard that @Ayush broke his in the act !

Then @Dillinger had to glue it back on !

Industrial strength superglue, copious amounts of it in fact.

 

[ranjeet]

Industrial strength superglue, copious amounts of it in fact.

Your secret is out now !!!!

 

[Dillinger]

Your secret is out now !!!!

Technically its Ayush's secret.

 

[ranjeet]

Soft and hard **** is not bad thing..... This is good for health as it burns calories. No need to go in Jim for exercise just watch **** movie.....

I second that 

Technically its Ayush's secret.

just because I am a jaat, you think you can beat me on technicality ??? how upper caste of you

 

[Falcon29]

I agree with the post up to some certain extent but as eating, sleeping and other day-to-day activities, masturbation is also a very natural human behavior. What you're talking about is exceeding the limit which is dangerous to yourself and in a way to the society as well. In my short life I have been with many religious people belonged to all the major faiths but one thing I noticed was that they try to justify their wrongdoings through religious scriptures that are actually capable of creating damage than simple and harmless acts like masturbation. For example I have seen religious people including Muslims spend huge amounts of money just for the service of religion while they are so reluctant to spend a penny for education of a poor human being and they are hell bent on hating each other.

I have too, although Islam is more lenient towards the poor. In our religion the poor will be judged before the rich even on the day of judgement.

I don't think you can say it goes hand in hand with day to day activities. What I would place in that is 'wet' dreams. Our body naturally does this about every 40 days. It releases semen fluid during ones sleep. This is natural and there's no wrong anyone could have done. Also even daily little drop or drops or released. The body does it's work and we don't need to do it.

Masturbation is done for pleasure. This is why it's a wrong act morally, as if you're trying to stimulate sex with your own hand. So that's my point here. It can be easily avoided. Doesn't mean people won't have thoughts anymore. It just means someone should keep their self out of this habit and addiction. It is an addiction just as pornography is an addiction.

We believe it should have no place in an society and in an Muslims life. It is crossing lines if one promises God end and doesn't. So I urge people not only Muslims to develop a strong mind which will cure you from all addictions and lively cravings.

Keep in mind, you keep this habit a relationship with a real person will have issues and you won't be used to it. So when you are going to get married Muslims remember won't benefit you. It's better to to have your wife as your garment. As Allah tells us so. You both are each other's garments.

Where I'm from the religious beautiful girls won't accept guys like this and it can easily be known. Put your trust in God and he will take care of this marriage situation for you. Like me, I am respected back home and know who is religious and which families are honest who have beautiful daughters. And I've planning to marry someone I already know thanks to God who made these good people available to me. And she's beautiful, at least a 9/10. So if everything goes well this is what God rewards for his slaves.