Raavan , if the prospect of having Tamils , Assamese, Manipuris , Oriyas , Marathis , Haryanvis, Gujratis , Kannadigas , Malayalis ---1.2 billion of them as brothers in arms is so distasteful ...you are strongly recommended to shift base elsewhere and look for new brothers --aka Sindhis , Pukthoons , Baluchis etc .Only hinderance being they might not be as willing to welcome a non-muslim into their arms.
In India you would have a nation-based identity whereas in Pakistani Punjab you will always be viewed through the prism of religion. Apparently your fore-fathers understood this simple fact which has been lost in excess displays of nostagia and unnecessary sentiment.