The point is that India did cross the border, shoot their guns, went right back and call it surgical strike. It's more of a cross border shooting.
Because India come up with exaggerated names such as surgical strike to describe a shallow cross border incursion, there is no need to discuss forther as we all agree with the facts, if not the name.
So what is the difference between a border incursion vs surgical strike in India? Outside of India, What India did was an incursion. What US did with OBL was a surgical strike.