Bhai, Bangladesh did an amazing job by providing jobs for its citizens and due to its location and politics it can live a rather easy life. Pakistan on the other hand is in a more difficult geopolicital location and position (India, Afghanistan, Iran, China, Arabian Sea...). But this is not the topic.
Before marriage I told my wife that she can work only in a "fancy" position and she was okay with that and I told her that I will support her in any of her decisions as long it's a fancy job with some education needed. My wief is right now caring for our son and we are looking for a German course with good timings so she can learn more German (she understands everything, but has problems speaking it because of her shyness
). Because the best life insurance is an educated wife, because they are no guarantees in life. What if I die tomorrow? And the other thing is that we need educated mothers to raise educated smart kids.
So that said, of course I wouldn't be cool with the fact that my wife works in a low-skilled job. The 1000 Euro extra a month doesn't make or break our family budget, I worked hard to provide for my family. Did all the courses, worked, made experience so my parents and my family can have a more chilled life. What man is cool with the fact that his wife is working as a cleaning women? I am not demeaning cleaning personal, but you get my point. I worked as pupil and student part-time as cashier, hotline and in warehouses, I know how the supervisors speak to them, I know how customers regard them as sub-humans who know nothing. I once worked as a cashier and the system was very slow and the customer buying for bubble gum for 3,45 Euros gave me an attitude and insulted me with the most ugly words so that the store mange came and kicked the customer out. Do I really want this to happen to my wife when she works as cleaning women or casher? I am a man, I am responsible for my family and my wife has the choice either she learns hard and makes something great out of her or she stays a housewife and I am also cool with that. I am the provider and thank Allah for this!
Bhai, EVERY woman I met in my business life became a housewife after marrying and having children. If women have a choice they go for family life. Regardless the position, regardless the pay. Bangladesh is a poor country and in a poor country you have 100 childrens because of this: the more people work, the highter the income. But in affluent socities where one provider is enough, all the women go for a "conservative" family life.
All the achievements in history were done by great warriors, scientists, leaders and politicians. History is a big man biography so to speak. Pushing women out of their natural role as homemakers will lead to destruction of society. Nobody cares for children anymore, 24/7 childcare outsourced, lesser kids and a skyrocketing divorce rate and the state as sugar daddy who provides for the stupid decisions of women.
We need to emancipate ourselves of the Western notion that working women is something great or women have to go outside and work for other men to be recognized as "modern". Educate your girls and boys, make them doctors, engineers and all the fancy stuff with demand. But still we need women in our households to raise and educate children. There is reason why men and women are different!
AND: the situation of our womenfolk in the Islamic states is due to our pagan rituals we sell as Islam. Pakistani and their superficial Islamic identity are not the reason for our women suffering. We are busy dancing at darbars and chaining our women there, Islam is only good enough for our personal gain, nobody wants to act on Islam, it's just abused as tool to get your personal stuff done.