Yaar shes a convert...let her ease into Islam ! Let her understand each and every facet of it and then have an opinion ! I've talked to her before...shes doing exactly that ! Reading the Koran, the Hadith...talking to fellow Muslims and trying to form an opinion of her own. Lets cut her some slack !
On SRK - Many of the things that he and Muslim actors (male and female) elsewhere do are highly objectionable to me as well but we shouldn't be too quick on declaring anyone a Muslim or a Non Muslim.
Ok you can give her some time. The door to islam is always open for anyone. But bro for you second part on SRK, this guy does idol worship openly, a sin that takes you out of the fold of Islam. So I can't consider this guy a muslim. Idol worshiping just crosses all limits and all bollywood khans openly do that. Hell they don't even consider themselves muslims and don't give a damn about religion , so why should we care and call them muslim. Considering these guys muslims will be equivalent to agreeing/giving consent to their kuffri acts.