The good nation of Pakistan can only grow and provide a better life to all, not just a ruling elite, to all of the citizens from sweepers up to top folks. No nation can be part of and compete in the world economy without doing international banking business and getting in the case of emerging economies, such as Pakistan, getting IMF/World Bank loans which have to be paid back via a debt service plan that operates on the free enterprise world model.
I was an International Banking Officer (when very young, after 6 years USAF active duty) in NYC with old Manufacturers Hanover Trust Company, long since merged into JP Morgan Chase Bank today. One's colors are the nation of your birth and legal citizenship. There is nothing wrong with loving your family tree and ancestry and perhaps those only one or two generations out from Pakistan have such dual devotion. My ancestry goes back to the 1700s, when some came from Ireland, some from England, some from Wales, and some from Scotland on both sides of my family. While I have enjoyed a few vacations in those places and do in face have one cousin who reverse migrated back to UK by marrying at UK MD, I don't have as avid an attachment as your young Pakistanis do.
But my focus was on the fact that only the Pakistanis inside Pakistan face the chaos, dangers, and shortages of life's basic needs there, in person. No one any where else in a more cushy economic and free political system can fully appreciate what you there in Pakistan are up against. I still have a few, aged like me, friends in Pakistan and hear from them regularly via e-mail, once and a while by phone. A few younger Pakistani professionals have called us long distance and correspond by e-mail, these are young professionals in their 30s, and we get Christmas cards from them and in turn send them Eid Cards.
I wonder if you or many others on this PDF site realize that as we sell Christmas theme stamps at all US post offices each year, seasonally, we now also sell Eid US stamps at all US post offices, seasonally? We likewise have Hannukah stamps seasonally for our Jewish ancestry brethren to buy seasonally at all US post offices, too.
Islam as a faith system is alive and well, and in the main moderate and a welcome addition to our blending pot society here in America. But we do have the sore spot now and again of younger overseas into US Muslims becoming radicalized and getting involved inside the US in terrorism here. A young age 20 or so Saudi Wahhabist student at a US university was arrested today out West (I would guess California) by the FBI for planning and then starting to build bombs to be used inside the US. If you go to either NEWYORKTIMES.COM or WASHINGTONPOST.COM you can read the details. But such persons are the exception not the rule. I think some young folks, even though technically well educated, do fall into a trap of radical Islamists who do recruit via the Internet and long distance on cell phones, but these seem thus far to be small in number.
Conversely I don't read in the Pakistani press of any various Christian denomination US students in Pakistin building bombs to blow Pakistanis up.
So, you have to deal with the reality of extremism is not a local thing in SW Asia, but seeks to spread worldwide, which is unfortunate.