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I respect your opinion but I think you lost your father too early and it's been another century of life you have enjoyed after him so it doesn't hurt you as much as compared to those who are still blessed with the shadow/benevolence of their parents. I know it really hurts when you are at such condition and once the person is passed away, after a while, Allah bestows mankind with the best of his gifts called "Patience".
But see your opinion a part, I could let my life slip away and may write a WILL before reaching to such stage for letting me off the hook before I become a pain for my children but see my Father is not facing any severe pain a part from minor complaints about pain in his feet sometimes. He has never given us trouble in our life and is the most gentleman I have seen or met in life regardless of his beloved relationship with me. We just have no guts to face severe condition of him, we can't even imagine living without him but if such stage ever comes, it is the will of Allah and I know he will bestow us with the best of his gifts "patience".
But for the last breath I am alive, I can do nothing but pray for the longer life of my father who has been so dear and kind to me for the whole of my life and I have never had an opportunity to pay back little to him for whatever he did for me in my entire life. It's more painful as I have not been able to pay back him the love he truly deserved and even now when he is admitted in the hospital, I could not be with him due to complicated circumstances. I was in Pakistan couple of days ago but I have recently had 4 trips to Pakistan since past 2 and half years and it is heart wrenching to see I couldn't be with him when he needed me the most.
Life and death is the will of God and everybody has to go one day but as I said, it is hard to imagine a house without him and I know one of us might just die regretting for the whole of his life.
My father is not well and admitted in the hospital, he is so weak that it is not tolerable for us to his state of health. Please pray for his speedy recovery and May Allah give him 100 years of life.
Aameen
PS: He is suffering from Liver Cancer.
Please do not mention about my dad's disease on Facebook if by any chance you are in my Facebook account, Thank you
My father is not well and admitted in the hospital, he is so weak that it is not tolerable for us to his state of health. Please pray for his speedy recovery and May Allah give him 100 years of life.
Aameen
PS: He is suffering from Liver Cancer.
Please do not mention about my dad's disease on Facebook if by any chance you are in my Facebook account, Thank you
I respect your opinion but I think you lost your father too early and it's been another century of life you have enjoyed after him so it doesn't hurt you as much as compared to those who are still blessed with the shadow/benevolence of their parents. I know it really hurts when you are at such condition and once the person is passed away, after a while, Allah bestows mankind with the best of his gifts called "Patience".
But see your opinion a part, I could let my life slip away and may write a WILL before reaching to such stage for letting me off the hook before I become a pain for my children but see my Father is not facing any severe pain a part from minor complaints about pain in his feet sometimes. He has never given us trouble in our life and is the most gentleman I have seen or met in life regardless of his beloved relationship with me. We just have no guts to face severe condition of him, we can't even imagine living without him but if such stage ever comes, it is the will of Allah and I know he will bestow us with the best of his gifts "patience".
But for the last breath I am alive, I can do nothing but pray for the longer life of my father who has been so dear and kind to me for the whole of my life and I have never had an opportunity to pay back little to him for whatever he did for me in my entire life. It's more painful as I have not been able to pay back him the love he truly deserved and even now when he is admitted in the hospital, I could not be with him due to complicated circumstances. I was in Pakistan couple of days ago but I have recently had 4 trips to Pakistan since past 2 and half years and it is heart wrenching to see I couldn't be with him when he needed me the most.
Life and death is the will of God and everybody has to go one day but as I said, it is hard to imagine a house without him and I know one of us might just die regretting for the whole of his life.
Hi,
First of all my apologies---.
The way you wrote your post---it seemed like he was in terminal condition---.
He is in terminal condition since many years.But thankfully he is not suffering from pain or anything. If I tell you the truth, we went through every way possible when we discovered his cancer back in 2012. I had created a thread on PDF asking everybody to pray and some of the doctors were saying he would not last for more than 2 weeks. Several members on PDF helped me contact with doctors in India and China. We also met the best doctors available in Pakistan (2 out of 4 doctors who had done Liver Transplantation in Pakistan) and some doctors who came from India and regularly do liver transplantation in India (Dr A.S. Soin from Medanta) as well as some doctors in UK.Hi,
First of all my apologies---.
The way you wrote your post---it seemed like he was in terminal condition---.