Pakistani women in abusive marriages in Canada

[Yankee-stani]

A strong man is not one who beats up women or abuses them...a strong man is he who has patience....you gotto let some things go at times.

Patience and flexibility is key in all relationships. I think the problem with many sub-continental men is that they had a control freak / abusive father and that becomes the model

Problem is that no.one talks about women abuse of men everywhere cause the West and Kosher are high on this feminist crap trying to push it to everyone

 

[Wa Muhammada]

Bitch shut your mouth

I shouldn’t be saying this but this is flipping hilarious

LMAO !!!

 

[Itachi]

Problem is that no.one talks about women abuse of men everywhere cause the West and Kosher are high on this feminist crap trying to push it to everyone

Brother Hakkitatjou does.

Maybe I butchered his name....he's on FB.

 

[war&peace]

I'm ok with the 1st abusive marriage....it happens...but a 2nd one too lol??

Well this time, it's definitely your fault lady. Now we just have to wait for the 3rd one too, you know, for publicity?

It reminds me of RK... she married twice.. divorced twice and blames her exes but if one looks at her life, she is the scum..low-life

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

Are you forgetting that the vast majority of Pakistani marriages aren't abusive?

To be honest most Pakistani women (in Pakistan) have no option even if they are not happy in marriage or with their partners. You can only take divorce if you are bold and financially independent. Its important to be happy in relationship

 

[Wa Muhammada]

Problem is that no.one talks about women abuse of men everywhere cause the West and Kosher are high on this feminist crap trying to push it to everyone

Iv heard of men under the thumb but getting beaten by their wife?

Dang!

I believe we follow our culture too much rather than our religion which makes things a tad difficult

 

[Yousafzai_M]

 

[jamal18]

Problem is that no.one talks about women abuse of men everywhere cause the West and Kosher are high on this feminist crap trying to push it to everyone

Too often we accept the narrative, and always we assume the woman is innocent. I genuinely cannot comment on this particular woman, but it is in the interest of the Liberals 'supporting' her to give the narrative: ' another fragile woman rescued from a backward, vile culture'.

Reality check : Women aren't always innocent.

 

[war&peace]

If you raise your children in western countries and they spend most of their time in these countries then their mindset is different so you cannot import Dulha/Dulhan for them from Pakistan thinking that marriage will work and there will be no hardship in it. Weak man abuse their partners. women can torture man as well if not physically then emotionally and mentally

A lot depends on how you raise your children. If the home environment has ethics and values then mostly probably the children will end up obedient.
A gentle man is always at the receiving end in an abusive marriage while a rowdy boor will get physical and abusive so it is very difficult to find the balance.

 

[jamal18]

To be honest most Pakistani women (in Pakistan) have no option even if they are not happy in marriage or with their partners. You can only take divorce if you are bold and financially independent. Its important to be happy in relationship

Yes, that is the flip side. There are enough vile and ignorant Pakistani men out there. Time for her family to support her.

 

[fitpOsitive]

It is Pakistani men have failed their wives and children by their misogyny.

Yup, kill all Pakistani men.
P. S Where are you, I am coming to kill you.

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

It is partially true. A lot depends on how you raise your children. If the home environment has ethics and values then mostly probably the children will end up obedient.
A gentle man always at the receiving end in an abusive marriage while a rowdy boor will get physical and abusive so it is very difficult to find the balance.

Our men are busy earning money outside. women are busy in cooing, shopping and others stuffs,, children spend most time in school/colleges and at work places so its very hard for parent to give them proper time and environment . Society and company influence people to great extent . You cannot expect children to live in western society yet behave like typical Pakistani or Saudia living in Pakistan/Saudia.

Yes, that is the flip side. There are enough vile and ignorant Pakistani men out there. Time for her family to support her.

actually I am not saying who is victim here because hard to guess unless you hear stories from boht side
But I was talking about Pakistan where some women are actually in abusive relationship but they have no option of escape unlike Pakistani women living in western countries. If woman is not educated or financially independent in Pakistan then she just compromise for sake of kids

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

The problem is these “Muslim” women who leave their husbands, destroy the health of their children’s lives, cut off from their parents, and claim they are successful.

They then share their exploits on social media to get support from Muslim/Non-Muslim women and white knight males, and clear their conscious to the tune of “he was a deadbeat, males are misogynist, women don’t need men.”

Then these women corrupt other girls and make them leave their husbands or convince women not to get married because “we don’t need men or marriage to live a complete life.”

You see all kinds of NGOs which then organize “Mera Jism, Meri Marzi” marches.

I find it absolutely disgusting that this supposedly “Muslim” Pakistani woman is dating and promoting these un-Islamic and sexually permissive lifestyle in the name of freedom.

No one these days ever thinks what will happen when you die?

All degrees, dating scene, and independence will be worthless, and only faith and deeds will matter.

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

Any Feminist here in PDF. No sign of them here

 

[jamal18]

You see all kinds of NGOs which then organize “Mera Jism, Meri Marzi” marches.

I find it absolutely disgusting that this supposedly “Muslim” Pakistani woman is dating and promoting these in-Islamic and sexually permissive lifestyle in the name of freedom.

Spot on. This isn't about a single instance. This is about promoting a mindset where Islam is the problem, and the Western Liberal path is the solution. Western NGO's will jump on to any occassion where they can promote this mindset.

I remember talking to a Spanish girl years ago when she said ' My body, my freedom.' These girls used to be the best in Europe, decent and virtuios. Now they are 'free' to slut it up with anyone; Spain is now full of single mothers and broken families.

Yes ladies, hand out your body to any man. We will shag and move on, you look after the kids! Why stay with a fat 40 year old, when twenty something girls are available? This is freedom for men!