Pakistani women in abusive marriages in Canada

[Jf Thunder]

good
kick out the damn abusive husband
use your right of divorce
no one should remain in an abusive relationship

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

good
kick out the damn abusive husband
use your right of divorce
no one should remain in an abusive relationship

Here comes one

 

[war&peace]

I'm ok with the 1st abusive marriage....it happens...but a 2nd one too lol??

Well this time, it's definitely your fault lady. Now we just have to wait for the 3rd one too, you know, for publicity?

Well, it can happen in individual cases and it is possible that she got into another abusive language as well but I'm against the generalisation that it is always the man who is oppressive while the women are all innocents.
Rather, I have observed quite the opposite. I stayed at my uncle's place during my undergrad and he married a woman of Persian origin who reverted to Islam from Zoroastrianism ..perhaps for the sake of marriage since her life style did not change much while my uncle worked hard to provide her a good life but she was extremely abusive and manipulative. She used to be quite unkind to me while my uncle was away but would pretend to be the most magnanimous and sweet caretaker when he arrived home

Even her children did not like her antics. I had to shift to the university accommodation because of her. My uncle used to visit me and would bring gifts for me without telling her. My uncle became really sick because of her..

Yup, kill all Pakistani men.
P. S Where are you, I am coming to kill you.

You'll need visa and won't get it because India is not granting visa to Pakistanis these days..

 

[Yankee-stani]

To be fair as a Diaspora Pakistani I noticed a trend where those arranged "shaddi" folks who were coerced by their parents to marry often fail because you know why times have sadly changed the internet and cable reality tv shows have made life as a slut look better the infections through these NGOS are not just in the Islamic world or Pakistan but all over Latin America is pretty Trad Cathoilc much more than the West but when the US installs a puppet regime the social mores decline badly besides the Evangelical crap also so this is why I despise Yankee so much as for the Pakistani diaspora I think more Pakistani men in the future will marry out with other Muslim groups as the family politics and annoying diaspora slutty and bratty girls turn off men mostly even importing one from Pak is not worth it these days

 

[Pan-Islamic-Pakistan]

Me too, when I'm of the age. I have seen many failed marriages here in the US because the wife thinks she needs to be treated like a queen while contributing almost nothing to the marriage/relationship and making the husband work like a mule.

No thanks....there's better women out there, more beautiful, faithful and equally hard working as the man.

Western propaganda of women liberation and freedom is so pervasive and destructive that Muslim women need to be detoxified by their parents or their husbands to be suitable to be wives.

Much of this propaganda is spread by Muslim political organizations, imams, and other Muslim women.

It is still not that bad for Pakistani women, as their base is strong and family-oriented, but some of our other Muslim brothers and sisters are in even worse shape like Arabs, Iranians, Blacks, and converts in general.

The most important criteria in choosing a spouse is deen, which the Prophet Muhammad saws told us, as this will iron out any defects in either spouse and re-orient them to Allah swt.

Also istikhara before any major undertaking is a necessity. It is part of wahi (revelation) which Prophet Muhammad saws left for us.

 

[ShaikhKamal]

I'm ok with the 1st abusive marriage....it happens...but a 2nd one too lol??

You have to find best spouse in the first marriage, make your best effort to make it work and treat the other with love and respect. After the divorce, if you want to remarry you will only find men and women who have been also hurt by their spouses in their first marriages and carry extra baggage and maybe children too.

 

[war&peace]

It is Pakistani men have failed their wives and children by their misogyny.

You speak only for your family.. your father ...but you can't speak for all Pakistan.

 

[313ghazi]

Seems to me she was just shite at finding husbands. Women face abusive marriages around the world. There is nothing exclusively Pakistani about that.

 

[Wa Muhammada]

If you raise your children in western countries and they spend most of their time in these countries then their mindset is different so you cannot import Dulha/Dulhan for them from Pakistan thinking that marriage will work and there will be no hardship in it. Weak man abuse their partners. women can torture man as well if not physically then emotionally and mentally

There are many overseas Pakistani families marrying their children back home....but the numbers are falling dramatically because they have a different mentality which is not always compatible so they are now marrying overseas Pakistanis like themselves.

 

[Yankee-stani]

It is still not that bad for Pakistani women, as their base is strong and family-oriented, but some of our other Muslim brothers and sisters are in even worse shape like Arabs, Iranians, Blacks, and converts in general.

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@Pan-Islamic-Pakistan


I disagree brother I respect your views but I think Pakistani women are the worst among all the Muslim girls funny cause we claim to be "Islamic Republic" it's one thing to talk about the Pakistani diaspora girls but lately the ones coming here the FOBs are just as materialistic snobs hence why 2nd and 3rd gen Pakistani diaspora men laugh when our parents or some random uncles say why don't you get "shaddi" being good boy I nod not to disrespect them but laugh hard when they leave man our parents and uncles have good intentions but they stuck in times don't know how Pakistan has changed since they left more and more Pakistani diaspora men will marry out to Arabs,Turks, Persians, Afghans, Central and East Asians to avoid family politics and sjws I see it happening in bigger numbers now

 

[war&peace]

The problem is these “Muslim” women who leave their husbands, destroy the health of their children’s lives, cut off from their parents, and claim they are successful.

They then share their exploits on social media to get support from Muslim/Non-Muslim women and white knight males, and clear their conscious to the tune of “he was a deadbeat, males are misogynist, women don’t need men.”

Then these women corrupt other girls and make them leave their husbands or convince women not to get married because “we don’t need men or marriage to live a complete life.”

You see all kinds of NGOs which then organize “Mera Jism, Meri Marzi” marches.

I find it absolutely disgusting that this supposedly “Muslim” Pakistani woman is dating and promoting these un-Islamic and sexually permissive lifestyle in the name of freedom.

No one these days ever thinks what will happen when you die?

All degrees, dating scene, and independence will be worthless, and only faith and deeds will matter.

Well, I just read her story, she has been dating white men and check her western dress so you can imagine what type of woman she is.

 

[YeBeWarned]

Fool me once, Shame on you ..
Fool me Twice, Shame on me ..

#Multiculturism #Zindabad

 

[war&peace]

Seems to me she was just shite at finding husbands. Women face abusive marriages around the world. There is nothing exclusively Pakistani about that.

More white men get physical and beat the crap out of their women in UK than in Pakistan.

 

[ShaikhKamal]

Well, I just read her story, she has been dating white men and check her western dress so you can imagine what type of woman she is.

When you are mistreated and abused and your own family tells you to stay there and take the abuse because divorce brings shame it so hurtful. When some of them break free they disown their culture which weaponized their abuse. You should also blame the husband their families who told the wife to stay in the abusive relationship.

 

[Wa Muhammada]

Well, I just read her story, she has been dating white men and check her western dress so you can imagine what type of woman she is.

2 thoughts crossed my mind :

- She likes white trash
- all of u Canadian spinsters on PDF you got a chance ...