It's funny how you keep trying to beat around the bush. Pakistan, with all its coups, has no history of its dictators putting down legitimate resistances of its people against their rule. India on the other hand, with all its 'democracy, has a +70 year long history of ethnic cleansing, genocide, subjugation and mass murder of women and children, as reported by independent western human rights watchdogs, in the land which every entity, including India, accepts to be disputed.
So much for your considerations.