Who is deciding according to what ALLAH has revealed? Tell me 1 person on the planet who is!
Did Allah reveal to kill your brothers? Did HE say kill Hindus, Christians? Did HE say let the poor die in hunger? Did HE say don educate your children? Did HE say dont give polio drops and let a virus spread like crazy? Did HE say burn houses and abuse people? Did HE say any of this?
Did ALLAH also tell you to force people to convert? I can give you a hadith where when Omar R.A. said something bad to man who peed in the masjid and was going to beat him up (imagine pee in masjid) Prophet SAW stopped Omar...
When Aisha RA wanted to retaliate for something someone said to her husband, Prophet SAW stopped her...When a Jewish lady threw rubbish on prophet every day did he go break her jaw? He was the leader then but no he went to visit her when she was ill! So where does it say to call someone kafir, to hurt others when Prophet himself stopped the sahaba from all that?! Are you better than the sahaba? If sahaba ko allow nai tha aap kaysay ker saktay hain?