Firstly, according to Islam a woman is allowed to choose without her consent you cant give her away....
2ndly its not every truthful honest sincere and religious man (at face) is really like that....and a woman is allowed to secure her future to add in financial security and looks....
Anyway when one is religious: truthful, honest and sincerity comes in naturally...
However, in today's world men who want 2nd wife are rarely than ever close to "real religious" they are down right horny....Justice is the last thing they are capable of!
- Just a warning but May ALLAH guide you
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