Fun fact: The U.S. never funded the rise of the Taliban. Sadly some elements of the Pakistani military and Saudi Arabia did. They did however fund the mujaheddin, which gave rise to the Taliban by committing war after the Soviets left against each other and Civilians.
Back on topic: Most Afghans want the U.S. but are too afraid of the local Taliban or spies in their Village just looking for a reason to have them killed and steal their land. These people know that if they have proper roads they can actually do something with the surplus food they have and get their children educated to have better lives. Afghans want their daughters to be educated and not be forced to sell them off inorder to pay off debt.
Nope thats your views and a few people that you know. You did not carry out any surveys. you just have a feeling. Why are you flying a pakistani flag?