Live together increasing in Bangladesh.

[VikingRaider]

Moreover we made the marriage very difficult now a days by imposing societal expectation of Groom finishing study and becoming financially established before marriage. Which often force men to marry in their 30s. Imagine the plight, you attain puberty at 12-13 years then forced to live without any sexual partner on you entire youth! Even girls are now expected to finish their study and find a good job before tying the knot. So it is not uncommon to see 30 years old bride these days. Add to this the social pressure to arrange a lavish wedding party and millions of Taka Den Mohor. So society is forcing men and women to spend half of their life as an involuntary celibate. Do we really think these will have no consequence?

Couldn't have said it better myself. Just want to add few lines . Pre marital sex has no harm if both agree .

(For religion put Hadith or fiqh base laws aside , as people are regularly commiting worse things in regular basis that's forbidden in those books, so only restrictions on pre marital sex is just hypocrisy.)

But also it can be use as tool for and against woman.

If woman find the wrong person , they will just use her and dump if point of view of the society won't change.

On the other hand some bad women use to to file fake rape case!

So only changing the point of view can solve the problems.

 

[VikingRaider]

Exactly, Quran actually do not tell much about veiling of women. It has only three verses related to women's veiling, two of them specifically to the wives of prophet Muhammad(pbuh). Only one is for general women. And it directing women to cover their bosom(in pre Islamic Arabia, women kept their bosom uncovered). But letter days, Islamic scholars imposed the restrictions specifically meant for Prophet's wives to all Muslim women in general by citing of dubious Hadiths. These Hadiths were floating orally for 200-300 years before codified by six Imams. Within this gap, so many fake hadiths were invented and many of them found places in six Hadiths collection.

Again wholeheartedly agree . Other than the verse of the wives of prophet ( pbuh) , for common women only covering their bosom and bottom is enough.

This guy explained it very nicely!
@Homo Sapiens

 

[Musalman]

Dur fitay mo !!! Live in relationship is haram.