VikingRaider
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Couldn't have said it better myself. Just want to add few lines . Pre marital sex has no harm if both agree .Moreover we made the marriage very difficult now a days by imposing societal expectation of Groom finishing study and becoming financially established before marriage. Which often force men to marry in their 30s. Imagine the plight, you attain puberty at 12-13 years then forced to live without any sexual partner on you entire youth! Even girls are now expected to finish their study and find a good job before tying the knot. So it is not uncommon to see 30 years old bride these days. Add to this the social pressure to arrange a lavish wedding party and millions of Taka Den Mohor. So society is forcing men and women to spend half of their life as an involuntary celibate. Do we really think these will have no consequence?
(For religion put Hadith or fiqh base laws aside , as people are regularly commiting worse things in regular basis that's forbidden in those books, so only restrictions on pre marital sex is just hypocrisy.)
But also it can be use as tool for and against woman.
If woman find the wrong person , they will just use her and dump if point of view of the society won't change.
On the other hand some bad women use to to file fake rape case!
So only changing the point of view can solve the problems.
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