Well vinod my family comes from kashmir......thats how it belongs to me and me brother kashmiris.......hindus or muslims.....no difference.
Have you ever been to kashmir..?
My dear friend. I am finding it strange to write (knowing about your background) but I am feeling a kind of empathy with you. I wish all the best for you and hope that you can freely visit Kashmir without any fear (though not as a militant).
The only way that can happen is that both the countries sincerely de-escalate the situation and the militancy totally stops. This will help the Indian troops to go back to the barracks and Kashmir can once again become the heaven on the earth it used to be. One, where you and me can both go freely.
Trying to snatch it from India will not only not work but is going to increase the hardships of the Kashmiris, something I believe you may care about though obviously I don't believe that to be true for the terrorists with Islamic outlook ans their leaders and supporters.
You know more than me that they don't even trust the local Kashmiris who they are supposedly helping. And all the abuses of locals and all, but lets not go there for now.
I believe the only solution is to make the borders between the two Kashmirs irrelevant and allow the people to freely go across and mingle.
I can only prey for that day. May be you can do a bit more by advocating peace among your militant friends. Else despite being well-meaning, you are only increasing their problems.
Regarding whether I have been to Kashmir, unfortunately not till date, though many of my family and friends have been there recently and enjoyed it. It has opened for tourism for some years and I hope to go there soon.
Well, as you say. The Pakistani Kashmir does have its own problems which are not insignificant, but may be cross-border supported militancy/terror is not one of them.
There is a lot you can do to help the Pakistani people in their current moment of crisis. See if you keep saying how great an Islamic state is (which I am sure you believe to be true), outsiders just do not see it that way and for a reason.
Make an ideal Islamic welfare state in what you have now and present a great example that people can see instead of just listen about.