of the 5 points you have mentioned above i support point 3. human rights violations need to be investigated as they would be in any other part of our country.
point 1 and 2 depend on the insurgency and security situation in J&K. once the security situation improves to the point that the army is not needed to flush out terrorists who regularly infiltrate the LoC, the army can move out and the AFSPA can be revoked.
points 4 and 5 are pretty much the same. with the current scenario, the kashmiris are too pissed off with india to choose anything but independence.
maybe if we had conducted the plebicide in 1971.....sigh.
on the demand of plebicide, the GoI will probably keep stalling forever or till a point is reached where the populace of kashmir supports india.
Buddy it's a cold-hearted game of interplay of interests and interests only.
India is playing to its own interests.
Pakistan is playing to its own interests.
Separatists are playing to their own interests.
My simple point is, everybody will have to give something and take something. This hold true for India, Pakistan and the seperatists. But, and this is a big but, since India currently has the upper hand and a position of strength, hence, India will get, it's only logical, more than it will give.
India will have to give full autonomy, human rights and everything. What India can't give in to is redrawing of borders. It's simply not going to happen. Plebiscite, hence, as an extrapolation of that, is not in India's interest.
Pakistan will also have to reconcile its differences with India. Give up demand for plebiscite, independence, redrawing of borders. In return, Pakistan gets peace (and they need it much more currently than does India). Pakistan gets trade with India which their economy needs desperately. And if they really are serious about the interests of kashmiris, it will give them assurance that the rights of kashmiris will be upheld.
Kahmiris will have to give up demand for independence. What they will get is a reconciliation with the parts of Kashmir under Pakistan's control. A greater unified kashmir will emerge with much much more autonomy and actual freedom but under the respective military control of India and Pakistan.
In the end, everybody will have to compromise.