I can't speak for zabanya, but I first came to this forum without any animosity towards India and Indians but after a few months reading how patronising and denigrating a lot of Indians are towards Bangladesh and bangladeshis you start to feel like that.
I came to this Bangaldesh sub forum with all the love and affection for Bangladesh since it is the land from where both sides of my family originated.
Notwithstanding, the bile generated here, my feelings for Bangaldesh does not change because of a few hotheads romping around as the 'sole voice' of Bangaldesh.
I found so much of anti India bile and without facts being given that I felt it rather unfortunate.
I won't say that India is a perfect neighbour, but then all the problems of Bangladesh is surely not that created by India, but you find innocuous incidents too are blamed on India. In fact, quite a few blame India rants are on very frivolous issues.
Take for example Shah Rukh Khan going to Bangladesh with some Russian girls and putting up a show was lambasted and given the colour that India was bent on ruining the morals of Bangladeshi pious Muslims.
Analyse that.
Shah Rukh Khan is indeed an Indian. But, don't forget that he is an individual and his bread and butter is entertainment, to include such dances.
Obviously, Mr Khan cannot go anywhere and start performing just because he likes to perform. He is invited by local sponsors.
Bangaldeshi sponsors would have invited him and surely the Bangaldeshi sponsors would not have organised the show if they did not realise that there would be a huge audience since not only they had to pay his astronomical fees but also make a killing in profits!
Now, it there is a huge audience in Bangladesh, who pay a King's ransom, to see Mr Khan and the Russian girls dancing, doesn't that prove that the Bangladeshi 'morals' are already 'ruined'?
Mr Khan is a Muslim and he is aware of what the Muslim morals should be. So, if he, as a Muslim, and the Bangladeshi audience find that it in no way affects the morals of Bangladesh, why must some Bangaldeshi posters conjure 'reasons' to go hammer and tongs to blame India for 'ruining' the 'morals' of Bangladesh?
if Bangladesh invites him and he performs, how is it that India is ruining the morals of Bangladesh? Mr Khan is an individual and the Govt of India cannot stop him from going anywhere he likes to perform.
So, as they say, it takes two hands to clap and there is no smoke without a fire.