Have you ever gone through cold start doctrine ? try to find and invest some time to read it please, and it is PAKISTAN, not india, who have attacked every time or compelled other party to attack (leaving it no other option). MAD seems a very romantic word to use in posts, but having impact unimaginable in practical ground.
And if you have a weapon which is not intended to use on civilians of enemy country but your own, "tab to aapka khuda hi malik hai." one more thing, "It dosnt matter how much you and your army yell, MAD has only one meaning i.e. partial destruction of india and complete destruction of pakistan. " That is why wise people say-
" War is a too serious business to leave upon generals." Hope you get my point.
COLD START DOCTRINE
Cold Start is a military doctrine developed by the Indian Armed Forces for use in a possible war with Pakistan.[1] It involves the various branches of
India's military conducting offensive operations as part of unified battle groups.
As per Cold Start promulgation,
offensive operations could begin within 48 hours after orders have been issued. Such a limited response time would enable Indian forces to surprise their Pakistani counterparts. Operations would involve armored spearheads launched from
forward positions in Punjab and Rajasthan.
So what dont you understand about India actually having a plan to attack Pakistan. Pakistan does not have a made up plan to attack India.
But your so-called peace loving, valuing human life govt is ready for war with a well designed plans.
Also, that last statement of yours would be a very good dialogue in your B-grade indian movies. But for e.g., USA is led by civilians in conducting wars and look at the result that brought them. They lost Vietnam war. In the second Iraq War they had to hastily withdraw as too many soldiers dying and we all know what the mess is in Iraq. Then we come to the Afghanistan War where they are planning to withdraw in 2014 after more than 13 years and taliban are talking with the Afghan govt with USA's blessing. So much for the "War on Terror".
So with the civilian govt playing at war and getting results like that, I am sure the generals would be as bad as these nincompoops in playing war.
Again I will try to explain to you, I dont know if you are intellectually capable of comprehending that MAD doctrine will assure a general peace in the region and hence the need for Pakistan to keep developing nuclear technology which can be used in missiles to make India think 100 times before initiating fo0lish doctrines as COLD START.