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Feminism - Equality when it suits "her"

Based on the information given in this article, do you think that ..

  • Feminism should not be encouraged as it only takes women's issues in to account

    Votes: 7 14.6%
  • Feminists need to broaden the scope of their movement to include men's issues

    Votes: 3 6.3%
  • Men's rights movements should bring more attantion to the that issues men face

    Votes: 5 10.4%
  • A gender role framework should be adopted as it is based on compromise and not competetion

    Votes: 8 16.7%
  • A movement such as "equalism" should cater to both men's and women's rights

    Votes: 25 52.1%

  • Total voters
    48
An example is needed when something is rare to not when it is common knowledge

I have addressed this with the 1st few words of my reply....


You are the one who is missing the point....

When you want to put forth an argument that the feminists are not seeking equality but highlighting things that happen to women which also happen to men ....You seemed to bring it about using a men's right group which is doing the same for men and no there is no equality there....

I already stated that the modern or current group isnt doing what it was made of...yet you want to drag the discussion?!
Feminism is biggest self hating movement which has seriously twisted meaning and understanding of equality which is only harming women and make them more vulnerable to attacks of all kinds
 
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Aunty @Akheilos pdf,s redfem :D

.-Asim Jabbar urf Zibagi urf fakhre mirpur urf sheikhay oye

On topic this thread is discussing issues of first world countries we in Pakistan still have issues like denial of inheritance and forced marriages to deal with
 
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The original Feminist movement had a cause; focus on real issues of the time.

The so-called 3rd wave Feminism is just continuation of the status-quo. It grants women a false sense of entitlement and is harmful to the society at large.

First of all feminism does NOT help women in any way shape or form. Its a western reactionary ideology and is a branch of liberal secularism. It has nothing to do with women's issues. Liberalism needs a constant enemy and "oppressed" group to save to stay relevant. And they invent such oppressed groups and coin terms for them. For example after the homosexual rights established in the west , they are now promoting the concept of gender neutrality and ranting for transgender rights as they now identified transgenders as an "oppressed" group that need to be saved:

https://defence.pk/threads/unisex-toilets-in-schools-–-the-new-lgbt-battleground.432497/

Same way feminism was liberal attempt of manufacturing the concept that women are oppressed and that they need equality with men. Muslims should question this very notion of equality. Men and Women are NOT equal. Allah (swt) has made men and women in such a way that they compliment each other. Men and Women are different and their rights are different. Allah (swt) has given men and women their due rights NOT equal rights. Muslims should become aware of that since one of the main aims of western secular colonialists is what they call "liberating" the muslim women. The muslim women for them is the primary obstacle to complete intellectual domination. If they can make muslim women drunk , do party all night and fornicate in then name of liberation and rights then they have destroyed the muslim society.

Having said that , i don't mean that muslim women are getting their fair and due rights in muslim lands today. We need to ensure that muslim women get their due rights that Islam has given them but that narrative can NOT be shaped by feminist who has an obvious agenda. It has to be addressed by muslims in muslim lands NOT westerners and intellectually colonized secularists. Most of the problems women face in muslim lands are due to ignorance of Islam and blind traditionalism and culture which are pre-islamic in origin. Eg. In Bangladesh there is a cultural norm for Brides family giving dowry (joutuk) to grooms family and in many such cases the grooms family literally torture or even kill the bride if bride family fail to give joutuk. But this is both illegal in BD and prohibited in islam . Rather islam demands that the groom give bride dowry as a condition for the marriage to be valid. Same goes for honor killings in Pakistan and India.

@abdulbarijan
This guy gets it. Nicely put.
 
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Yes thats how feminism started, yet like I've said -- the feminism of today is the "thekeedar" of equality and claims to be for both men and women.
I already answered this bit if you have to repeat it so you can understand it...so be it! :tup:
 
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I already answered this bit if you have to repeat it so you can understand it...so be it! :tup:

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Madam with all UNDUE respect, your "Explanation" to the argument that

"Modern feminism is not about equality because it talks big for both men and women through its literature yet in practice only covers women, and in fact actively goes around undertaking actions that hurt men" is as follows

-"I agree, feminism has taken a different direction" (thank you for admitting that modern feminism is bigoted)
-"Women are human too" (Strangely I don't recall calling women animals )

Then you TRY to come back with an argument something to the effect of

" Your using information from MRA sites, who only represent the male version of affairs, so your doing the same thing, so why should I accept your argument"
( First off, only a small part of my post was taken from MRA sites, merely 5 out of a total 17 links were from those sites. However MRA is Male centrist. It's literature doesn't preach that it is for both men and women unlike feminism.
The point is feminism is the only one that says it's for equality of both yet actively only supports one (women). and discriminates against men even though it claims its for men too. MRA's dont" ...

You came back with

"feminism started the same way" (yes, but I don't recall us living in the late 1800's and early 1900's.)

From that point onward your argument is

-"I've already stated that + some clever way to poke fun +:tup:"

Which BTW is actually funny, because if one were to conclude what happened in this thread. You admitted that feminists atleast modern feminists are following a bigoted ideology. Secondly, your point of me quoting from MRA sources was ripped to shreds. and Now your only left with "i've stated that already" ... because guess what .. you don't have further arguments to stand on ... and somebody's ego is not taking that too well..:cray::cray:

Lastly, "which version of feminist are you/agree with? " was a question I posed twice ... and I've yet to hear an answer.

1stly,
I do agree feminism has taken a different direction but just like most of the laws were/ are male friendly...the feminists show that other laws need to be added coz the "current" ones arent covering everyone (female are human too).

I already stated the obvious in the 1st sentence of the very post you quoted ;)

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You are the one who is missing the point....

When you want to put forth an argument that the feminists are not seeking equality but highlighting things that happen to women which also happen to men ....You seemed to bring it about using a men's right group which is doing the same for men and no there is no equality there....

I already stated that the modern or current group isnt doing what it was made of...yet you want to drag the discussion?!

And that is also how Feminism started :tup:

Glad to see your blind spot!
 
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I already stated the obvious in the 1st sentence of the very post you quoted ;)

Well, this is exactly why people are questioning feminism. Because the feminists that actually hold any power and influence don't seem to be interested in equality.

You from Canada stating that is interesting!

What's your point? The statistics on the OP are mostly from western countries as well.

Yes but if you have a look their stat is also coming from poorly read articles which have both sides of the story but they choose a side to share!

I don't get your point. Can you share examples where something like that happened?

And that 10% is supposed to somehow out number the 90% who get mentally traumatized?

What is your exact point here?

May we see you statistics for this claim?
http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/71-222-x/2008001/sectionb/b-unemployment-chomage-eng.htm
http://www.npr.org/sections/money/2010/07/07/128359804/unemployment-rate-men-vs-women

Regardless, you should be smart enough to know that the ratio of men to women working would never be proportional to men killed vs women killed while working. Even if only 40% of the working force was women, that would be nowhere near the percentage of those being killed at work being men, 92%.

Well, the fact still remains if 90% were women that would be the future of the whole nation at stake since men cant carry a baby to term! And that is a fact that even ALLAH acknowledged (as a Muslim) by calling the womb the same derivative as his name RAHIM! So be thankful it isnt 90% for women!

Here we go with another feminazi claim that women are more valuable because they give birth. And who built the civilization and all the technology as we know it? We won't have any problem if 90% of the suicides were women. The population will keep growing more or less just as fast.
But that's not my point. The solution to this problem isn't that 90% of suicides are women -- there's another option available. There isn't anything about being done because it's men that are killing themselves. Nothing is being done to solve this problem. I want solution instead of having 90% suicides be women.

As for a symbol of male oppression or not that is up to the men killing themselves to decide many do it due to job stress rather than anything to blame a woman or a law about!
But if women don't eat to satisfy society's image then it's men's fault yes? It's always the men's fault and never the society.

Well, the chance of being killed by someone you know is higher than being killed by a random stranger....

Well the opposite was what OP was pointing out, wasnt it?
Just concentrate on men and overlook the fact that a woman also faces her own set of problems...
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Just highlight men face problems without showing the other side of the coin which is women also face problems which even in the 1st world country are not acknowledged best case would be the recent release of a rapist in USA despite having proof and witness! The humiliation of a woman when she is denied justice even WITH PROOF!

So, let's do the math. There are 100 homicides. 20 of them are women (typical percentage - 20-25% of homicides tend to be women out of 100), and 16 of which were committed by someone they know. Should we pay attention to those 16 over the rest 80 that were men.


I think the article would have pointed the latest number if it was favouring men ;)

It's an academic paper. Do you know the difference between academic papers and news articles?

What you call "rise of feminism in the early 70s" is not the same as today! Back then it was still screaming and fighting and now it is more established!

You were talking about 1987. You need to read up history of feminism. It wasn't that much less powerful or entrenched then as it is today.

Honestly speaking, you just demonstrated that men don't seem to care unless men are far better than women in every way...Doesnt that kind of show psychological projection at play?

You are projecting your own misandry here and putting words into my mouth. The original statistic was that men experienced only a slightly larger decrease in violence from strangers. I said it's a non-statistic and non-issue as nothing changed that much. But you want to make a zero-sum game where men's conditions being improved must means women's condition deteriorates?

So she claiming her own data not sufficient to prove much yet you insist you know better about her research than her? interesting!

You didn't answer my point nor you understood it. Her point was that it's not possible to say two cases are same because the data held by police or the justice system may not cover all aspects. My point is that even if that's true in one case, it should average out over all the cases. So in the end, you'd see roughly equal amount of punishment being given to men and women for similar crimes. You don't see that, and you don't see that across all sorts of possible crimes.

Do you get it now? Her point deals with individual cases. My point deals with all the cases averaged out, i.e. the general case.

Btw, if it was women that were punished more, I am 200% sure you'd be making a big deal about this even if that disclaimer was printed.

You think only 1 teacher thinks that way?


Like I said it is psychology and one's right not to feel extreme hate (like you) and feel empathy.

Yes, let's feel empathy... but it must be only one way, toward women! Men, no, let's be violent toward them!

And that is a fact of science which you cant change!

This is quite silly. Why not just give boys the same punishment then? You don't have to give them worse punishment just because they are stronger. If you are going to go down this road, then let's give something to men in return for being guilty of being stronger.

I am pointing out facts learn to understand them first!

I am pointing out your facts are pointless because if it were women in the same position we'd have a crisis on our hands.

And the article in OP did the same for men but I dont see you going crazy about it. Maybe you need to understand equality before pointing fingers at 1 end of the spectrum and accepting the other end of the spectrum blindly!

How did the article do this? I understand equality better than you. You seem to want equality one way.. let's punish boys for being stronger and not girls, women's lives are more important, etc.
 
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Thought to share this answer from Quora. Feminism has reached India. India is experiencing hyper religiousness from the Hindu groups and Feminist wave who manipulates laws which is giving them extreme advantage:
https://www.quora.com/Why-is-it-dif...an-woman-in-general/answers/2126033?srid=dJ5p

Excerpts:

First things first. I left out one very important piece of information in my original post. I mentioned that the husband of that woman slapped me in full public view and with cops looking but never interfering. That’s true.

What is also true is that the father of this woman issued a death threat to me, again in full public view, and in front of all these cops. He said, “I will cut your head into two pieces. I will slice your throat. I am saying this in front of the police, and I am not afraid.”

Yeah… so asking a woman out is a crime, but hitting a man, or issuing a death threat, in full public view, in front of the cops, with CCTV monitoring all around is not!

Understandable. NOT.

What do the cops do? They specifically tell my Mom that, “We are here to destroy his life. We will stop at nothing until we destroy him.

Fan-Tas-Tic
 
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