Not really. Its the generation born of the early-mid-late eighties that has the last power to create intelligent change. Those before them have already squandered their opportunities away, they are already too old and inflexible to think beyond their closed mindsets or too sure in whatever knowledge they have managed to accumulate that what they know is right. So no, with all due respects to you; you have already wasted your chances. Your opinions are already based on "been there, done that" regardless of whether it was the right way to have been there done that.
A person born in 1980 is today 35 Years of age
At that age NO officer of Indian government decides policy ie IFS officers
They just implement it ; Policy is decided by 50 Plus age group people
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Secondly and far more importantly The India Pakistan dynamic is based on
Two factors
1 Economic gap and differences
2 Pakistan's continuos sponsorship of Anti India activities and the demand for Kashmir
When we see that a country which is Ten times weaker than us threatening us
we dont see the need to be friendly towards it
India will NOT bend in the present situation and not even in the future
because the Economic GAP will ONLY become Bigger
After all we dont see anything that Pakistan brings to the table
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Now collating the TWO paragraphs ;
when a 1980 born officer reaches 50 Years of age in 2030
he will MAKE policy towards Pakistan based on the
Economic gap of that time
Policies are not made on emotional considerations but current and future projected Situation
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BTW a Book has predicted that India Pakistan animosity will LAST till 2047