@Oscar you are speaking of a generation. What after that?.
Entirely upto the generation that follows.
And this is not specific to either India or Pakistan. The entire world is now shaped by facebook trends and shares, by tweets and 5 minute youtube videos. The newer generations are being more polarized into groups where being ignorant of anything beyond what you deem important and rejecting anything that does not confirm to your world view is at times important to be in with the "cool" kids(whosoever) they are.
Contrary to the various TeD talks and other "intelligensia". The youth of tomorrow, all around the world and in India and Pakistan; are not becoming more aware, they are becoming less rebellious and more aware of everything meaningless. When I say meaningless, I refer to the need to simply do the basics and move on without bothering to research truth or falsehood.
When droves upon droves of Teens, Young adults and even facebook mommies in India and Pakistan can put rainbow colours on their profile pictures while being openly homophobic... I can only imagine what these people are willing to accept as normal in terms of diplomacy and international relations?
Today's youth is liable to reject a potential suitor with a swipe of their finger on Tinder and look at a hundred without even thinking of delving into personality; are these people then expected to even care about the faces of humanity on either side of the border?
The only generation that has the power to actually reach some reasonable agreement between India/Pakistan are those whose grandparents were split up; those who are in positions of decisions. They carry that baggage enough but not too much of the angst, they also carry the common connections with them.
Anything beyond that is best confined to pages like "Humans of New York" where they can make socially acceptable comments on "how we never thought Pakistanis were like that" in the hope of gaining many likes on facebook.
Hell be damned if in reality 500 Pakistanis are brutally killed in a terror attack to them, that does not matter for their social media image.
If it any hope. it is now the same all over the world.
Whereas previously one could expect an extreme 10% on one end and the other.... and 30-40% varying degrees of informed but unsure.. and 5% well balanced folk who know the true picture and what is the best to be done with the remaining sheep.
We now have that 5% at 10%.. but some 40% at the extreme.. with the rest sheep or even honeybee drones.