I never said China should ask them to calm down because quite frankly you guys have lost control of the rabid dog
Pardon my going off-topic for a bit but...here we go again with the 'you guys' statement. A certain JayAtl already got served for saying that to me. I speak for no one else but myself, and vice-versa, unless explicitly stated. However, that does not make facts any less valid, facts which you have not properly rebutted (if you can that is). Also, may I remind you that I am an American citizen, feel free to go have a field day over that little tidbit of trivia.
what I did say was that if you stopped their economic and food aid which only serves the Kim family than change may be accepted by the North Koreans because of necessity
And what I said was that stopping aid would mean a collapse of the North Korean regime, which would result in millions of refugees streaming across the Chinese border as well as destabilizing the region. Of course from a moral standpoint that does not excuse any of the 6 nations from blame for the current situation, but now you can at least understand why the 5 nations talking with North Korea are rather keen on keeping the unsustainable status quo for as long as possible, because all the other practical scenarios are worse (at least for the short term after the collapse of North Korea). None of the nations in the Six-party talks have any illusions when it comes to the reality of the geopolitical situation.
or the military itself may turn on the family and adopt changes (like the Myanmar situation).
Burma was able to progress because not only did they decide to do it, they also took concrete steps to change. Keep in mind that even Burma took well over half a century to make substantial reforms. Burma and North Korea are similar in that both nations can and could choose a different path for a better future. The difference is that after half a century Burma has, while North Korea has not.
As long as fluff boy Kim is getting fed I don't see why he would care if a couple thousand of his people starve every so often. China may not have as much leverage over the North Koreans as it used to but then I ask you this, which country on this planet has more leverage over NK than China??
Please enlighten us, how 'much' leverage did China 'used to' have over North Korea? And how was that leverage exercised? China does have the most diplomatic leverage over North Korea at the moment from a relative standpoint compared to other nations, but even that is extremely limited as it is, unless you're saying that China could threaten to withhold aid. Well, North Korea already knows what will happen in that scenario - they collapse, millions of refugees will end up crossing the Chinese border. North Korea can simply call that bluff and we end up back at square one.
And yes, there is one nation with more potential leverage over North Korea - the United States. Why do you think North Korea has been doing all these provocative acts such as nuclear and missile tests and even directly calling out America recently? Do you really think North Korea is doing all that to get China's attention? No, North Korea is doing it because they want diplomatic recognition and a peace treaty from the United States. That is something that only the United States can offer them, and the Wikileaks document has made that explicit.