Arranged marriages?

[Sunshine48]

Please sister become a doctor. We lost so many of our women who went through the schooling to only have it on their CV for a good man, or were prevented by their in laws.

Yes I'm in final year. I won't leave my profession inshaAllah.

 

[Blacklight]

Yes I'm in final year. I won't leave my profession inshaAllah.

InShaAllah

 

[StormBreaker]

Not Shia/Sunni, Deobandi/Barelvi type differences but something like myself considering Palestinian struggle to be legitimate but he believes Muslims should leave Palestine, make hijrah, leave the land to the Jews etc

That’s not religious, That’s political.

Neither you are right and neither is he.

Palestinians, I agree that civilians suffer a lot, However, There is a whole backstory and some hidden keere, Iran indirectly involved in Palestines suffering. You may have never been to Arab countries but I spent my life there, Palestinians are the worst racist scums generally. (but not all are wrong as well, Some are actually great people among them).

So you shouldn’t debate politics with potential mian. It doesn’t concern you and neither does it to your mian.

 

[El Sidd]

Of course, that's why you are seeing mature discussion to help out someone in need.

That is a remote possibility.

Maybe this topic just invokes guilty conscience or envious emotions and hence more traffic.

Marriage is both a taboo and the most discussed phenomenon in Pakistani circles.

Worth, quality, succes of human life is judged by this variable in almost all primitive cultures.

 

[StormBreaker]

Yes I'm in final year. I won't leave my profession inshaAllah.

You shouldn’t compromise on your studies. Agar BBA ya xyz bekar degree hoti to samajh aati hai but this shouldn’t stop .

(BBA walon se muazrat)

 

[Blacklight]

That is a remote possibility.

Maybe this topic just invokes guilty conscience or envious emotions and hence more traffic.

Marriage is both a taboo and the most discussed phenomenon in Pakistani circles.

Worth, quality, succes of human life is judged by this variable in almost all primitive cultures.

Beti pareeshan hai, aur aapki chawwalien !

 

[El Sidd]

Beti pareeshan hai, aur aapki chawwalien !

kaun pareshan nahi hai?

 

[StormBreaker]

kaun pareshan nahi hai?

Aurten

 

[El Sidd]

Aurten

sannu ki?

 

[HAIDER]

How do arranged marriages work? Would members here advise against or in favour of arranged marriages? Does the couple need to have understanding and feelings for each other before marriage?

It's like a lottery on the wedding night,,, either you win or lose .... lolzz

 

[Musings]

I had an arranged marriage. Best thing I ever did. There has been ups and downs but overall we have had a great partnership and become soulmates .......

 

[StormBreaker]

It's like a lottery on the wedding night,,, either you win or lose .... lolzz

What sort of a reply is that ?

sannu ki?

Bas samajh jao mian, Aur duaon mein khas yad rakho

 

[El Sidd]

Bas samajh jao mian, Aur duaon mein khas yad rakho

zaroor. is paksword per nazar rakha karo ye jaldi beh jata hai darya e emoooossion me

 

[StormBreaker]

zaroor. is paksword per nazar rakha karo ye jaldi beh jata hai darya e emoooossion me

He is a good lad, Has good bartan dho-ing skills, He once told us about it

 

[El Sidd]

He is a good lad, Has good bartan dho-ing skills, He once told us about it

apna khana khud garam kare
apne bartan khud dhowwe

Khudi ko kar buland itna kay hukoomati charas business se out hojaye