Pride
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Well I had many encounters with "Love" but many times I lost for analyzing if that is really Love or something else:-
I was in Engg 5th Sem, I had fight with my best friend recently and we were now furious enemies. We were fighting for each and everything then one day our common frnd recommended a girl from MBA 1st year to my ex-frnd. Now burning with revenge and to show wining edge on him I thought of catching the fish earlier. I changed my style, personality and used all hooks/crooks to get her. Finally after a lot of effort our common frnd arranged meeting and here when I saw first time, I was drowned in Love ocean. Her eyes said so many things in first meeting that I lost every negative feeling even i forgot that I should celebrate it as win-over-enemy. After our 3rd interaction, I told her everything that how and why I approached her but truth is that now I love her.
We belong to conservative family and hence cant freely roam around and not even we can talk on Phone (Mobile was just starting those days). Whenever she calls she become "Nitin" and we talk one sided talk showing our families that we are talking about subjects. The interesting twist in the story was that her elder brother was doing MBA with her as well on the same college & class. hence we can't even meet freely in the college. My frnds used to do a lot of stupidity like puncturing his bike, take him to long drive for no work etc. to separate her from her bro so we can meet.
I made her brother as frnd of mine but later he get to know that we are using him to meet with her in her home..lolz... I go to her home just to ask if her brother is not there while I have been already informed that her bro is not available. Later, her bro could get to know that we are in love and we had fight on which I convinced her that is not the case.
Then i moved to do job and she stayed at home. We were in daily contact and i asked her to talk to parents for marriage but she was afraid. I asked if she want me to do the same but she refused as she was scared. Then seeing no chance we decided to separate and be a frnd forever.
Even today this story is many year old but when I think of it I smile and feel a respect for both of us. I loved her, She was my first love and how beautiful were those days. We don't talk now but we see each other's update on Orkut/FB silently and we know what she/I meant.
I love my wife now and she knows about her but respect & mutual understanding between us made everything beautiful even the old love story of mine.
I was in Engg 5th Sem, I had fight with my best friend recently and we were now furious enemies. We were fighting for each and everything then one day our common frnd recommended a girl from MBA 1st year to my ex-frnd. Now burning with revenge and to show wining edge on him I thought of catching the fish earlier. I changed my style, personality and used all hooks/crooks to get her. Finally after a lot of effort our common frnd arranged meeting and here when I saw first time, I was drowned in Love ocean. Her eyes said so many things in first meeting that I lost every negative feeling even i forgot that I should celebrate it as win-over-enemy. After our 3rd interaction, I told her everything that how and why I approached her but truth is that now I love her.
We belong to conservative family and hence cant freely roam around and not even we can talk on Phone (Mobile was just starting those days). Whenever she calls she become "Nitin" and we talk one sided talk showing our families that we are talking about subjects. The interesting twist in the story was that her elder brother was doing MBA with her as well on the same college & class. hence we can't even meet freely in the college. My frnds used to do a lot of stupidity like puncturing his bike, take him to long drive for no work etc. to separate her from her bro so we can meet.
I made her brother as frnd of mine but later he get to know that we are using him to meet with her in her home..lolz... I go to her home just to ask if her brother is not there while I have been already informed that her bro is not available. Later, her bro could get to know that we are in love and we had fight on which I convinced her that is not the case.
Then i moved to do job and she stayed at home. We were in daily contact and i asked her to talk to parents for marriage but she was afraid. I asked if she want me to do the same but she refused as she was scared. Then seeing no chance we decided to separate and be a frnd forever.
Even today this story is many year old but when I think of it I smile and feel a respect for both of us. I loved her, She was my first love and how beautiful were those days. We don't talk now but we see each other's update on Orkut/FB silently and we know what she/I meant.
I love my wife now and she knows about her but respect & mutual understanding between us made everything beautiful even the old love story of mine.