Asad71, I can see your good intent, but even Zabanya is more informed about the region than you are.
1. We BD have very close relations with our brothers in Malaysia and Indonesia. These countries have minor irritants between them - I wont call them problems. And these are fueled by Singapore and its Zionist ally. Mossad is very powerful in Singapore.
First of all, Singapore or Mossad has no part in this problem between Indonesia and Malaysia. Indonesia has been trying to stir trouble with us since the very day Malaysia was created in 1957, where they tried to claim some of our land and lost the battle.
Till today this moron Indons walk around the streets of Jakarta with bamboo spears stopping cars looking for Malaysians and shouting their shyte slogan "Ganyang Malaysia" (Destroy Malaysia). They're so jealous of us that they even make a issue of our nursery rhymes taught in school claiming it's their culture and song. We rather work with Singapore or Brunei (which should have been part of Malaysia if not for their selfish Kings), but never the Indonesians.
2. Indonesia has and is making tremendous progress in defense production. Their economy is potentially strong and have a strong industrial base. Yes, they do not have the expertise or organization of work that one finds in Malaysia. They need a Mahathir to pick them up.
They have a huge population and some natural resources, but their economic planning and governmental organization is a mess. People like Dr. Mahathir come once in a 100 years, and till they put aside their political difference, it isn't going to happen anytime soon.
3. The Muslims of this region : Mindano, Brunai, Malaysia, Indonesia, Malaysia, the islands taken away from Indonesia to benefit Australian mining Cos, S Cambodia, S Thailand, Arakan, Bangladesh and East Indian Muslims, would feel safer if one among them had nukes. Indonesia qualifies for that slot. But if possible BD and Malyasia could also posses this. The bullying of India would also be neutralized.
There is NO WAY I'm going to agree with Indonesia having nukes. Currently ASEAN is peaceful because no one has the upper hand, we're all equal. Giving nuke to any country would tilt that balance, and the Indonesians who can't even manage their own country, they will make a mess out of ASEAN if they're given any power.
I wouldn't agree with Malaysia having nukes too, if it comes at the expense of people's money and economic development. Economic development and education should be the government utmost priority. We're not interested in war and weaponry.
If there's any country in the region which should have nukes, it's Bangladesh, since both your regional countries (India & Pakistan) has nukes, so that puts balance on South Asia power scale.
Speaking of India, the only way they bully us is with playing Bollywood movies and opening Indian restaurants here
Otherwise, we have a good business and trade relationship with India.