Durran3
FULL MEMBER
- Joined
- Aug 3, 2008
- Messages
- 1,013
- Reaction score
- 0
I agree with you wholeheartly, besides the part of religion in our lives. Even though I am atheist, I still believe religion is important, based on looking at my two young daughters.
First, strickly looking at my daughter i am making this analysis. To teach them any sence of our culture, I have to teach them about religion, to my dismay. So one can conclude that if there was no religion, one cannot find a cohesive culture. The eastern culture are so imbedded with religion that one cannot escape. For example all the holidays are based on some religious aspect. The classical dance and music classes I sent them to, are based on religious overtone. So, I disagree with you that values of culture can be transfered to your children without any religious overtone.
And to answer your question on this regards, people are changing there views with new ones, but they are doing it thru religion. That is why denomination exist in religion today. If religion was so perfect what would be the purpose of having different denomination?
You have a very excellent point indeed that society will force you to learn about religion but i guess that's not entirely a bad thing as long as you keep it safe and refrain your kids about knowing things like death, Hell and all the other dogma to install fear into them. Your kids will eventually grow and will have the freedom to choose what they so desire eventually.
One of my biggest criticism is religious schools. Were it up to me I'd put a complete ban on religious schools. Now i am not against kids learning about religion in schools, i think they should because its an important part of our society and in general is an important aspect of life that one can not escape whether you are religious or not. I would put it more in line of literature, history and studying culture. Nonetheless what i am truly against is labeling children, like the video i posted above says a four year old Muslim kid is no different than a four year old Jewish Kid or a four year old Sikh kid because they are to young to know what their views on each religion are. They should make their own choice when they eventually grow up but labeling them simply because they happen to be born in a place like Pakistan to Muslim parents doesn't automatically make them Muslims, or a child born in Columbia to Catholic Christian parents doesn't make him a Catholic from the get go.
The Way the faith schools are run share an idea of segregation, instead of bringing different children together they label them from the start and tell them of the consequences of what will happen to those who leave their faith or to those who don't share the same faith as you. Its like saying 'right now they (those who don't share our beliefs) are fine, but soon they will burn in hell and we'll have exclusive access to the gates of paradise, so we just have wait for that time'. This kind of thinking itself is fundamentally violent by nature because of segregation. Labeling people means you are putting people in groups, by putting people in groups you are thus creating differences, differences leads to hatred and hatred leads to violence, its a step by step process.
Now like i said i think teaching children about religion is fine but God forbid if i open any holy scriptures to teach my kids about Morality and humanism. That's the last place i would look for moral suggestions, that should come from the parents, simple things like do good, setting a good moral example by being a good parent is far better than all the scary elements like burning in hell for eternity in my opinion.