Peregrine
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HiThere is nothing weird in parents selecting for their children. Parents raise the children with great difficulty and hardships and they are not fools to let their children into trouble. Once you become a parent yourself you will know what I am talking about, so the hardships parents endure in raising their children, this one happiness to choose something for their children is their right.
And as for your other 2 concerns, naturally and as per Islamic point of view, the couple should be shown to each other and their agreement to accepting each other based on looks should be taken, and as for knowing each other, well let it be left after marriage, as that is the real fun compared to knowing each other before marriage as after marriage no fun left in exploring each other personalities.
And as for your sexual desire thingy, have no idea what you mean by that but once looks are accepted, that thingy of yours should get satisfied too
And yeah arranged marriages are more fun and work better then the other alternative.
every individual is eccentric, Parents get to choose what children study, what they do, how they live, but when it comes to marriage life i don't think that Parents should force children to marry people of their choice eg let me quote an example my mother thinks white complexion and thin lips are a symbol of beauty so she thinks her kashmiri relatives residing in sialkot are very attractive but do i think the same no ,i don't even like thin lips, similarly i resent sialkoti accent. these are very valid concerns i don't want a wife who only makes chappatai or chicken with curry, when i like pasta and lasagna. besides its the kids hormone that we are talking about how come Parents get to choose, who their children hormones should like