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Why do Japanese stop having sex?

Most likely, due to economic reasons, considering the living standards in Japan and that many women in Japan would rather work in an office than to be a housewife.

A lot of countries have the same living standard but I don‘t see Hongkong or Singapore having the same problem.Korean girls also work alot but they still go to bars and have one night stands.

Sitll no satisfactory answer here,I am more leaning to the explanation that Japan being on the higher end of human development spectrum and this could be a syndrome of over-modernization, since the Japanese always take something and make it to the extreme. May be this is the future not just for China but for the entire humanity,our species could stop
reproduction one day and become a dying breed,Japan today could just be the pioneer
 
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You need to have an income proportional to supporting family and children.Some may believe its not worth the hassle.Also many japanese are workalohics with great work ethic,so they may not find for romance too much.

Hi Buddy @AUSTERLITZ et al,


There are definite challenges as well as opportunities as we address the issue of population dynamics in countries, a case example would be Japan. There are factors we should all consider and these include: a) development status of the country, b) the work culture of the country, c) the economic performance of the country, d) the immigration criterion. These all are independent variables that influence national population dynamic and demography. It is true that the number of older persons are rising sharply as life expectancies are increasing throughout the Asian region and it is even stated that countries as diverse as Japan, Korea, China, Bangladesh, Cambodia, Mongolia and Vietnam – the population of over age 60 will triple by 2050. It is also true that as birth rates decrease this shall lead to lower young workers that will be entering the labor force. The growing health care and socials support costs associated with aging will also posit challenges for any government. Be that as it may, there are also opportunities. For one, as quality of medicine and rehabilitative care increases around the world, this means that older people today (as well as in the future) will be healthier , more active in the past, which means that they will be a resource that should be tapped. There are some complementary solutions here and some may include raising the age of retirement in order to allow the pension systems solvent, coupled with incentives and other measures to motivate older people to keep working longer.

One should also note that contrary to popular perception, the later a person retires does not mean that he or she will impede the growth of younger workers nor does it translates to fewer jobs for the young. Studies have shown that having more older people work can actually raise the GDP and create more demand for young workers, which may drive people to produce more children (UNPF, 2014).

Second, to correct popular perception that aging population can be a detriment to the economy. Health systems do have to contend with the increased demand for non-communicable diseases such as strokes and diabetes, however, the age of the individual is not the dominant driver of rising health costs. Rather, countries can manage expenses by emphasizing preventative primary care as well as reforming the pharmaceutical purchasing policies that can maintain the solvency of a nation’s health care system and payment plan (UNPF, 2014).

In the case for Japan, there is a paradigm of professional responsibilities as well as domestic responsibilities that influence perception of stress and influences quality of life. Research conducted by Mizumo-Lewis and McAllister (2008) researchers on nurse’s working conditions in Japan, explored tensions between nurse’ rights to take leave from work to fulfil family life and personal needs and their actual ability to take such leave. The researcher also considers the effects of being restricted from taking such leave. Mizumo-Lewis and McAllister (2008) noted that there are differences to taking leave between Japan and the West. In a comparison, the basic idea of taking leave from work is different between Japan and the West. Even though sick, it is not as easy in Japan as it is in the Western countries to take leave from work. Additionally, taking leave to care for family members is uncommon in Japan ; the situation derives from historical needs created by an isolationist environment coupled with enigmatic historical figures and their accepted philosophies, which combined to develop a unique Japanese culture.

The behaviors of and expectations on Japanese workers as with such circumstance of not taking leave entitlements stem from the influence of philosophers such as Santoku Ninomiya (1787-1856). Ninomiya’s statue once stood in the majority of elementary schools in Japan and was a great historical Japanese personage who expounded on the philosophy of the virtue of hard work. This philosophy is very deeply rooted in Japanese society. His works and methods are symbolic to Japanese and his words: “Diligence is a virtue” is a continuing philosophy in Japan. From his works comes the belief in the concept that society is more important than the family and the idea that one should not bother other people. The sense of this and other cultural precepts stem from older philosophies such as Bushido (Nitobe, 1908).

Bushido takes the Confucian five moral relations between the governing and the governed, father and son, husband and wife, older and younger brother and between friend and friend (Nitobe, 1908). The composed, benevolent manner of such principles suited the Samurai, who formed and ruling class of warrior statesmen. Matsumoto (1996) explains that the precepts of Bushido are loyalty to one’s masters and fidelity to one’s lord and that these although somewhat modified to accommodate industry as authority, are not old-world ideas, rather they are an important element of contemporary Japanese society. Nursing leaders have the expectations that nurses follow this path of ideas inasmuch as all other industries in Japan, putting the needs of the hospital before any personal needs or concerns. Nursing and Medicine in Japan reflects the hierarchical structure of many organizations in the country, career building is aligned with seniority or length of time employed (Mizuno-Lewis and McAllister, 2008).

Recommendations and Solutions

Nursing and Medical sectors of Japanese industry, as with other sectors in Japanese industry, have to be serious in their consideration of reducing nurse’ stress, then there will likely be a reduction in the number of mistakes resulting from work fatigue. With recent policy changes that are catering for women’s rights in Japan, as well as allowing the voices of Japanese workers’ to air their complaints to employers , the paradigm is addressed. There must be a two pronged strategy to address the issue of population dynamic ; political policy to redress the cultural constraints, secondly a public campaign to encourage limited immigration into the country as well as to bring cultural and international infusion into Japan as a way to repudiate the innate constraints caused by isolationism of the past.



Best,
@Nihonjin1051

Reference:

Aging population doesn’t have to be a time bomb. (2014). United Nations Population Fund. Retrieved from: www.unfpa.org.

Mizuno-Lewis, S., & McAllister, M. (2008). Taking leave from work: the impact of culture on Japanese female nurses. Journal Of Clinical Nursing, 17(2), 274-281.

Matsumoto D. (1996). Unmasking Japan. Stanford University Press, Stanford, CA.


Nitobe I (1908). Bushido, the Soul of Japan. Retrieved from the project Gutenberg ebook. Available at: http://www.gutenberg.org/files/12096/12096–8.txt (accessed 16 October 2005).
 
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The vast majority of Japanese women do not take the pill. This might have something to do with the very low rate of breast cancer in Japan in comparison to other developed countries.
 
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My best guess, Japanese men want to seek family loving girl who will give up working after married, something that even difficult to find in Jakarta for middle class women.
 
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My best guess, Japanese men want to seek family loving girl who will give up working after married, something that even difficult to find in Jakarta for middle class women.

most japanese woman takes very good care of their family member. the only thing that makes japanese males stays away from marriage is because they'll have 90% of their salaries cut off from their wife. that is why sometimes they're hanging out in Pachinko or Horse Race Betting fighting for luck to get more money into their personal pocket. heck, i have played a PC-98 game about marriage life in japan. it's quite depressing imo

also you might want to check this out on YT. (can't post link yet. so i'll just copy title here)

【FULL】世界の日本人妻は見た! 動画 インドネシア・ジャカルタ 2015年3月17日

a documentary about Japanese wife in indonesia, and also about the remaining family of Sukarno and Suryadi Suryadharma. the host is Dewi Sukarno. it's in japanese dub and there's no english sub around, though
 
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also you might want to check this out on YT. (can't post link yet. so i'll just copy title here)

【FULL】世界の日本人妻は見た! 動画 インドネシア・ジャカルタ 2015年3月17日

a documentary about Japanese wife in indonesia, and also about the remaining family of Sukarno. the host is Dewi Sukarno. it's in japanese dub and there's no english sub around, though


Wow, you do understand Japanese, the most difficult language in the world...... :-)

BTW, Thanks for the link.

If you are a woman, so we have two Indonesian female PDF who can speak Japanese, you can get along with @madokafc here, she can speak Japanese too
 
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most japanese woman takes very good care of their family member. the only thing that makes japanese males stays away from marriage is because they'll have 90% of their salaries cut off from their wife. that is why sometimes they're hanging out in Pachinko or Horse Race Betting fighting for luck to get more money into their personal pocket. heck, i have played a PC-98 game about marriage life in japan. it's quite depressing imo

also you might want to check this out on YT. (can't post link yet. so i'll just copy title here)

【FULL】世界の日本人妻は見た! 動画 インドネシア・ジャカルタ 2015年3月17日

a documentary about Japanese wife in indonesia, and also about the remaining family of Sukarno and Suryadi Suryadharma. the host is Dewi Sukarno. it's in japanese dub and there's no english sub around, though


ha ha ha, you have a point. There is a popular saying we Japanese men say (or apparently we are supposed to say.... lol) to our intended fiances: 俺と一緒のお墓に入らない it literally is Oreto issho no ohakani hairanai --- or --- Shall we share our graves together?

Its a symbolic terminology, phrasing of marriage. I think that there really is a dichotomy between the concept of marriage in Japan and the concept of marriage in the West. In the west most folks (the ones that i've know and ones who've ive dated...lol) usually talk of marriage or associate it with colloquialism and love, romanticism, sexual commensurability and comprehensive relationship union.

This is different in Japan. In Japan, yes, there is romanticism in marriage, but that is secondary. Primary focus of marriage in Japan is the union of a household, the economic and ritualistic as well as political importance. The latter becomes an issue if there is marriage between two folks who hail from large Zaibatsu families or political families.

In Japan there is a difference between the notion of 家族愛 --- Kazokuai or Family Love and ... 恋愛 --- Renai or Relationship Love. The former --- Kazokuai --- focuses on the emotionality aspect, and the latter -- Renai -- focuses ont he practicality aspect. The two are no interchangeable, both are elements within so called marriage in Japan.

So yes, in Japan , we marry not for the sake of just pure love. Or Japanese don't , usually that is, marry someone immediately because of being awestruck due to the factor of finding a 旦那 -- Danna -- or Hubby. Marriage is a serious issue , and is usually entertained only when the two people are truly committed to joining themselves financially, economically, emotionally, and filial. It is not something Japanese folks do at the 'spur' of the moment.

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Arigadou Gozaimasu,
@Nihonjin1051
 
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A lot of countries have the same living standard but I don‘t see Hongkong or Singapore having the same problem.Korean girls also work alot but they still go to bars and have one night stands.

Sitll no satisfactory answer here,I am more leaning to the explanation that Japan being on the higher end of human development spectrum and this could be a syndrome of over-modernization, since the Japanese always take something and make it to the extreme. May be this is the future not just for China but for the entire humanity,our species could stop
reproduction one day and become a dying breed,Japan today could just be the pioneer

I agree. Rationally speaking, also why bring another child into this cold, miserable world.
 
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ha ha ha, you have a point. There is a popular saying we Japanese men say (or apparently we are supposed to say.... lol) to our intended fiances: 俺と一緒のお墓に入らない it literally is Oreto issho no ohakani hairanai --- or --- Shall we share our graves together?

Its a symbolic terminology, phrasing of marriage. I think that there really is a dichotomy between the concept of marriage in Japan and the concept of marriage in the West. In the west most folks (the ones that i've know and ones who've ive dated...lol) usually talk of marriage or associate it with colloquialism and love, romanticism, sexual commensurability and comprehensive relationship union.

This is different in Japan. In Japan, yes, there is romanticism in marriage, but that is secondary. Primary focus of marriage in Japan is the union of a household, the economic and ritualistic as well as political importance. The latter becomes an issue if there is marriage between two folks who hail from large Zaibatsu families or political families.

In Japan there is a difference between the notion of 家族愛 --- Kazokuai or Family Love and ... 恋愛 --- Renai or Relationship Love. The former --- Kazokuai --- focuses on the emotionality aspect, and the latter -- Renai -- focuses ont he practicality aspect. The two are no interchangeable, both are elements within so called marriage in Japan.

So yes, in Japan , we marry not for the sake of just pure love. Or Japanese don't , usually that is, marry someone immediately because of being awestruck due to the factor of finding a 旦那 -- Danna -- or Hubby. Marriage is a serious issue , and is usually entertained only when the two people are truly committed to joining themselves financially, economically, emotionally, and filial. It is not something Japanese folks do at the 'spur' of the moment.

:)



Arigadou Gozaimasu,
@Nihonjin1051

Japan, a strange land indeed. But apart from all what you said I think the millennial's have reached the conclusion that marriage might not be financially viable option anymore. Furthermore in Japanese society marriage usually means end of women career as she is expected to quit her job and look after husband and family. And may be women are not ready to sacrifice their whole lives for traditional concept of marriage.
 
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Maybe too much Manga-poorn doing the job here? @Nihonjin1051

He he he, i swear i have no idea what that is! :lol:

On a serious note , buddy, I think most millennials in Japan are focusing on professional development first before marriage. I don't think its just a case for Japan, but also in the United States. I've got some buddies here who i hit the golf course with on weekend-basis ; they're all in their late 20s or early 30s-- still single , professional yuppies.
 
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Chics come in a dime and a dozen. But what's more attractive now is how much you have in your wallet and in your 401K, lol.

Joke joke! Wait, there is truth to what i say...lol.
 
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The title should have been Why do Japanese don't procreate recently
 
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