Ok some very serious thought. Really wanted to tag some fav forum elders but not doing ,feel lil reluctant.
when iwas reading that adoption thread, pilot adopting child one and mainly that indian guys post whose sister is adopted, iwas thinking, actually lemme share ihave always loved the concept of adoption ,adopting an orphan kid or someone from similar or troubled background. I was thinking kay apnay bachon , relatives say tau har koi payar kar leta hai aur karna bhi chahey cuz Allah nay quran may rishtay daron kay rights par kitna zor diya hai magar alongwth all that kya yeh baree baat nahi hogee kay insaan kisi aisay shakhs say jo uska kuch nahi uska bacha nahi lekin us say aisay selflessly payar karay jaisay woh apnay asli bachon say karta ho...i believe aisa hoskata hai.
And i am not talking abt childless people , iam talking abt someone who already has kids. Can we only give true love to an adopted child only when we dont have a child of our own? Why not when one has his own kids and he can affrod to adopt a child. Whats more beautiful than loving that kid as ur own real child and bringing sun shine into someone's life.
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