wishful thinking for India. It seems that many members here think China is a threat to India and that any other country opposing China must be a good thing (even optimistic thinking include that they will look to India for leadership)
Truth is China is not a threat to India and never has been. The 1962 stab in the back is a lie and the obsession and fear is very much one sided. China is ready for a settled border and better relations as soon as India can make up its mind.
You got the wrong drift. When I suggest an inclusive solution, I do not intend to say that it will weaken China. On the contrary my desire is to see a stronger and more prosperous China because that will ultimately over the coming years give rise to a more democratic system within China which will be much better for all including India. Becuase with collective will at work, such grandiose claims need not arise.
Re the threat that India percieves from China, I have to disagree with you. It is very real. It was more military earlier and even though 62 was the only direct confrontation but indirectly there is a way via Pakistan to this day. However, increasingly, it is turning more in to an economic equation and the threat remains alive.
But, to share your optimism, I see no reason why both nations even when working for their own good can come around their differences and get together. It is just a matter of pressure points. For India, all these years China has found Pakistan to be a nice, willing and complying pressure point, for the South Koreans, that job is done by the North Koreans for China, for Vietnam, the Chinese have always had Cambodia, for Thailand, Myanmaar fit in the scheme of things very well for China.
However, now it is just a matter of some new pressure points arising of a different nature........