Nonsense for you maybe,not for us.
Do we talk nonsense about Jinnah?
To your questions,
We are over it,before our economy was bad and the EU would bring is further.
Those times are over,we dont need to get in the EU.
No we dont have a complex,do you have one?
Turkey needed Nato as protection from the Soviet Union after WW2.
It originally sought membership in EU as far back as 1964(I think) as it thought that this would help the country to develop quicker than it otherwise would have. There may have been other reasons like binding Turkey's secular character even more firmly into the fabric of society etc.
However I think now the Turks would gain very little with being members of the EU. Turkey already has access to the EU market, with the signing of the "Customs Union" in 1995, and has been able to grow it's economy since this time by exporting to the EU.
We have seen over the last decade the percentage of total exports from Turkey to the EU dropping from 60% to 48%. As the EU is likely to remain in the period of little to no growth over the rest of this decade, this will fall further.
Simply Turkey is big enough to go it alone and it can develop just fine outside the EU.