To all the married men

[Peaceful Civilian]

Good husband makes good wife.

 

[Neuro]

There is no ground or golden rules in life. First love yourself and feel your uniqueness and believe it there is no substitute for you in the world. Simple as: Live your life as you like , just be yourself.

 

[araz]

forgive and forget.... the most difficult thing to do

Ali karam allaho wajhu said. Never promise a woman anything. Even if you were to bring her the whole world she will still chastise you for that one thing that you promised and could not filfil. I am amazed at how they can remember things that happened 20yrs ago specially when it concerned their perception of being wronged and we cant remember what happened 2 hours ago. You need the patience of a dervesh to put up with them . However I would still not even contemplate spending a moment without her. Funny things these women.
A

 

[Maarkhoor]

To all the married men.
What are the ground rules that have to be set since day1 [by both man and women] for a happy, respectful life

To all the ladies.
What should an ideal husband do in terms of behaviour towards his wife
What do you think an ideal wife should do in terms of behaviour towards her husband

Bro kuch kehney sunny ka moqa kahan milta hey
Na hanjar pe daag na daman pe cheenth...
Tum qatal karay ho ke qaraat karay ho...

 

[SR-91]

To all the married men.
What are the ground rules that have to be set since day1 [by both man and women] for a happy, respectful life

To all the ladies.
What should an ideal husband do in terms of behaviour towards his wife
What do you think an ideal wife should do in terms of behaviour towards her husband

#1......YES them to DEATH

#2.....Be Awesome under ur bedsheets


#3 .......YES them to DEATH again

 

[45'22']

To all the married men.
What are the ground rules that have to be set since day1 [by both man and women] for a happy, respectful life

To all the ladies.
What should an ideal husband do in terms of behaviour towards his wife
What do you think an ideal wife should do in terms of behaviour towards her husband

R u married doc??

 

[Imran Khan]

ive seen couples in which the man leans more towards the parents... the wife and kids become resentful

on the other hand ive seen the man leaning more towards the wife... parents die without any care.. only regret is left for the man


need to balance this stuff out.. and its basically this fine line which i wanted to ask.. how you guys balance duties

i hate this jahil nation they spread this BS on fb

 

[RAMPAGE]

To all the married men.
What are the ground rules that have to be set since day1 [by both man and women] for a happy, respectful life

To all the ladies.
What should an ideal husband do in terms of behaviour towards his wife
What do you think an ideal wife should do in terms of behaviour towards her husband

You have worked hard to be where you are and now all set to enter this new phase of life. You think that you're well prepared but trust me, you're not!

 

[melb4aust]

forgive and forget.... the most difficult thing to do

And who does that ?

Good husband makes good wife.

Good luck to that....

Ali karam allaho wajhu said. Never promise a woman anything. Even if you were to bring her the whole world she will still chastise you for that one thing that you promised and could not filfil. I am amazed at how they can remember things that happened 20yrs ago specially when it concerned their perception of being wronged and we cant remember what happened 2 hours ago. You need the patience of a dervesh to put up with them . However I would still not even contemplate spending a moment without her. Funny things these women.
A

A bitter reality I am still facing to date....

The best way to handle a relationship is to make boundaries from the start. That will itch in the beginning but your partner will get use to it in little time. Its good to share but not everything. Stand by your words and don't let your partner get involved in your official & delicate family matters. Give love & care, earn respect but do not go much of an extent to show it. Admire her work but don't make it a habit.

@ manticore These are just few mere tips ......... They may work or may not ........ but if you will employ them stick to them steadily.

 

[Hamartia Antidote]

Golden Rule: keep cash low in wallet.. You will have to surrender it a lot.

 

[Manticore]

And who does that ?


Good luck to that....



A bitter reality I am still facing to date....

The best way to handle a relationship is to make boundaries from the start. That will itch in the beginning but your partner will get use to it in little time. Its good to share but not everything. Stand by your words and don't let your partner get involved in your official & delicate family matters. Give love & care, earn respect but do not go much of an extent to show it. Admire her work but don't make it a habit.

@ manticore These are just few mere tips ......... They may work or may not ........ but if you will employ them stick to them steadily.

Ali karam allaho wajhu said. Never promise a woman anything. Even if you were to bring her the whole world she will still chastise you for that one thing that you promised and could not filfil. I am amazed at how they can remember things that happened 20yrs ago specially when it concerned their perception of being wronged and we cant remember what happened 2 hours ago. You need the patience of a dervesh to put up with them . However I would still not even contemplate spending a moment without her. Funny things these women.
A

thankyou guys

 

[Zibago]

I am just engaged but i learned an important thing that i would love to share with you all
YOU ARE NEVER RIGHT ARGUING WILL ONLY MAKE IT WORSE

 

[third eye]

Marriage is a failed concept. I would advice you to not marry but rather stay in a live in.

As the old saying goes..

All men must get married, after all happiness is not everything in life !

 

[Shamain]

And who does that ?


Good luck to that....



A bitter reality I am still facing to date....

The best way to handle a relationship is to make boundaries from the start. That will itch in the beginning but your partner will get use to it in little time. Its good to share but not everything. Stand by your words and don't let your partner get involved in your official & delicate family matters. Give love & care, earn respect but do not go much of an extent to show it. Admire her work but don't make it a habit.

@ manticore These are just few mere tips ......... They may work or may not ........ but if you will employ them stick to them steadily.

Aap tau choti choti baaton pay forum pay bhi naraz hojatay hain. Ap asal may bhi aisay hee lartay hon gay?
Ab mujhay bhi bura kehna shuru kar dain gay cuz i wrote this :/

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Kisi bohatttt famous scientist ka qoul hai:

'If u are a funny person and ur partner annoys u then its his/her fault.' - Newtonstein Shamain Khan

Omg ihad newton and einstein's name merged, yeh tau rhyming hogaya newtonstein shamain wah wah im doing shayari too.
@JonAsad see im such a genius.

 

[Gufi]

need to balance this stuff out.. and its basically this fine line which i wanted to ask.. how you guys balance duties

THE DUTIES OF THE HUSBAND | Facebook
please read... it is simple pictures but really says a lot of your duties.. hope it helps... and on the balance thing, honestly not married and have no idea, I guess honestly make them spend time with each other so that they get along while you are not around..
but being surrounded by friends who have gotten married and hearing the ones who are happy and the ones who are not.. the biggest differences between them is

• acceptance not change. when you are forced to change, it makes you bitter... Stop trying to change but rather accept things.. it does not matter how many differences you have but how you deal with them, whether you accept your differences or argue and fight over them till there is nothing left but hollow shells of who both of you were
• Keep your issues between yourselves, no one likes a third person coming between them... Women hate being lectured by others about their marriages
• Keep your me time, always have time with friends and unwind and let her do the same.. too much time spent together gets one feeling trapped
• the whole truth is not always the best option... That well, I have seen happen in every situation in life

and honestly, just you worrying enough to think on these lines means you will manage to do great...