The virginity industry

[su-47]

I cant stop laughing

Why o Why someone has to get anything done.

BTW, that tissue can get ruptured by many physical activities, like running, cycling, swimming etc. So I do expect that that tissue would be ruptured in any such activities even if a girl is really a virgin, as girls these days do all these activities.

So if my partner oozes any such liquid I would be more suspicious than being happy.

Exactly. With so much modern physical activities, it is ever more likely that the tissue would just break. Would that make the girl less of a virgin? Also many men consider rape victims to be 'impure'. But is it their fault that some maniac decided to attack them?

There are a lot of things that we as humans are supposed to do, but what we do and what we are supposed to do are two different things.

Also the virginity is of concern to only those people who themselves are virgin. Its not a concern actually, its an insecurity. Since they themselves are virgins they expect the same in return. They feel ripped off and cheated when their partners are not virgin. They feel as if all their life they have been so stupid and missed the most joyful moments of their life in anticipation that someday they would find someone who would all theirs to love. Its obvious they would be disappointed since they were expecting otherwise for their entire life.

For those people who themselves are not virgins, their partner's virginity is least of their concerns.

While this is the main reason, a lot of men, even ones with previous sexual experience, still expect their wives to be virgins because they like the idea of knowing that no one else has touched her and that he has 'exclusive access' to her. It makes them feel like she is 'all mine'. It is this attitude that forces women to do surgery or use kits to make themselves 'virgins' again.

As you said earlier, an honest woman is anyday better than some pseudo virgin who fools her husband with fake virginity.

In our society, the man can go screwing around before marriage, but if a woman has even a single sexual encounter, she is considered a whore. The fact that women in the subcontinent are forced to hide their true self shows the WEAKNESSES of our system, not its strength.

I hate the societal aspect of demanding virginity from the bride. It is HER choice who she loses her virginity to.

If my wife gives her virginity to me, I will consider it a gift, a show of her commitment to her husband. But i would never consider her virginity my right.

 

[Kabir Panthi]

There is a deeper question that underlies the "virgin bride" issue.

And that is, whether it's OK for anybody, male or female, to have casual or wanton sex, without any deep commitment.

 

[gambit]

There is a deeper question that underlies the "virgin bride" issue.

And that is, whether it's OK for anybody, male or female, to have casual or wanton sex, without any deep commitment.

If the casual sex is between CONSENTING adults, why should it matter to you regarding any commitment?

 

[amoverlord]

remember somethng frm stupid n funny thread.....nobody remains a virgin,life f#%ks everybody........ ))

anyway....sex is highly overrated.......

 

[Kabir Panthi]

If the casual sex is between CONSENTING adults, why should it matter to you regarding any commitment?

Well there are two separate issues here.

The first question is what effect the casual sex has on the consenting adults - whether it has a positive or negative effect on them.

The second question, which is quite separate, is whether society has any business controlling actions which do not directly hurt others - for example consumption of drugs, alcohol or casual sex.

 

[su-47]

remember somethng frm stupid n funny thread.....nobody remains a virgin,life f#%ks everybody........ ))

anyway....sex is highly overrated.......

somebody is not getting any!!!!!

just kidding.

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

virgins deserve virgins..law of nature.

 

[harish]

A happy offshoot of the so-called virginity industry is the vaginal tuck industry where the vaginal wall muscles are snipped and tucked and tightened, much like a face or breast or buttock lift, to rejuvenate a multiparous vagina thus contributing to more enjoyable sex for both partners. Its becoming pretty common in the big cities in India and already there are some surgeons who have taken this to an art form. However, like everywhere, there are quacks and con artists too, the most common claim being to actually be able to enhance the woman's pleasure by not only increasing the area of the fabled G-spot but also making the surrounding tissue more amenable to tactile stimulation.

 

[Awesome]

loool whats with parisian docs ? i never understood ....... are they really that faggot ?

lived in paris 6 for an year and realised parisian are really not that stinky , sexually dead and feminist

but - i tell u had some bad experience in india -

An indian copper actually asked me - if i can help him hook up with a girl or atleast male friend of mine wtf. looool . . .

BTW i dont think virgintiy is common these days and people care too much , actually most people would hate to go out with a virgin.

Just today I was watching some teen show (ok its not creepy, because its a remake of a movie from my own teen days so that makes it ok), and as soon as the guy finds out the chick he's about to do the deed with is a virgin he loses all interest in her . She is perceived like ummm for the lack of a better adjective "BLUKH".

I was wondering if experienced women in the US are gymnasts in bed that experience counts that much that being a virgin for a highschool girl is akin to being a pariah like a leper.

 

[duhastmish]

Just today I was watching some teen show (ok its not creepy, because its a remake of a movie from my own teen days so that makes it ok), and as soon as the guy finds out the chick he's about to do the deed with is a virgin he loses all interest in her . She is perceived like ummm for the lack of a better adjective "BLUKH".

I was wondering if experienced women in the US are gymnasts in bed that experience counts that much that being a virgin for a highschool girl is akin to being a pariah like a leper.

yeh well thats true - i think anybody will be putoff by the fact that the girl is virgin , its kind ok ugly the whole idea of it : to do it and blood all around.

specially if you go out with some new girl- take a girl out drink and finally when u do it you set the mood ( with candels n clean house etc) and then you have bloody affair all aorund.

also the virgin girls are kind of emotional suicide, Also there is so much hype that the love end up as your university exam.

And i hope here - experienced is not mistaken as slut. loool you dont want harpese and V.D.

in asia love making is such a taboo subject.

 

[dbc]

I was wondering if experienced women in the US are gymnasts in bed that experience counts that much that being a virgin for a highschool girl is akin to being a pariah like a leper.

That's a loaded question Asim, are you sure you and PDF can handle the answer?

 

[ice_man]

what is wrong with pre marital sex?

it does not mean the person will be unfaithful after marriage . nor does it mean that the person will be in any way be disadvantaged.

the emphasis on virginity is a social taboo and is no more relevant in today's world where contraceptives etc are so easily available and where any disease related to sex can be just as easily diagnosed and treated.

can you forget your first time???

will you not compare?

and by the way marry mother of jesus was also supposed to be a virgin! so basically ALL religions are anti pre martial sex! it is not a norm!

i say both men & women should be virgin until marriage!

however, having said that asians live a dual life! all of us are hypocrites in many ways! we all like to look at women in mini skirts but will not approve our own women of the house to go out in them.....


so instead of everyone here trying to be "COOL" about these issues admit it we all have a degree of conservatism in us! better to agree then live in self denial!

 

[jagjitnatt]

can you forget your first time???

will you not compare?

and by the way marry mother of jesus was also supposed to be a virgin! so basically ALL religions are anti pre martial sex! it is not a norm!

i say both men & women should be virgin until marriage!

however, having said that asians live a dual life! all of us are hypocrites in many ways! we all like to look at women in mini skirts but will not approve our own women of the house to go out in them.....


so instead of everyone here trying to be "COOL" about these issues admit it we all have a degree of conservatism in us! better to agree then live in self denial!

Its not about being cool or anything.

In the US being a virgin is not cool, because the society is such, where everyone is open to sex and casual sex is ok. They all have it.

Problem arises when you're the only one left. In India when you see that your friends are having sex and you're left alone, you feel bad about being a virgin. Virginity sucks for you then.

But when all of the society is against pre marital sex, you seem to be comfortable being a virgin and actually be proud of it.

Its just relative, like Einstein said.

You just don't want to be left alone. Its human nature.

 

[BJlaowai]

I think Virginity is the state of Mind and Its just Hpyed up, nothing more in it.

Too many people make too much of a deal about it.

Virginity : making a big issue out of a small tissue

 

[amoverlord]

Virginity : making a big issue out of a small tissue