Your first para
I agree partly, but you see it is not really honest when you say that leave Asia to Asians. Many countries indeed want US here. It is somewhat like the Japanese model of Asia for Asians, but obviously with huge difference of aggressive tactics. Also, a thing that is invented or formulated in the west doesn't mean it is western. It is just modern. There were many things that Asians invented which rest of the world took because that was good. Obviously the last 2-3 centuries were Western centuries and hence they were ahead of rest, and discovered and formulated, the next big things, be it scientific, political, ideological or economic. If you actually look at it, China was destroyed by a uniquely western philosophy of communism. While communism did indeed rally people behind the communist party, and also brought good results in initial reform era of land reforms, gender and social reforms. It was a total failure for economic reforms during the Great Leap Forward, and then up until the end of the Cultural Revolution, finally coming to defacto end after the Fall of the Gang of Four, and the internal victory of the reformers in the CCP.
Your second para
Agree totally. Almost all countries will loose, especially japan, if conflict is avoided and delayed, except for India. India has performed very poorly. The ratio of Chinese to Indian GDP is 5:1. I don't see that increasing further. In 2016 the ratio which was until now increasing in the favor of China will start decreasing in favor of India. China will find it hard to maintain a growth rate higher than that of India to keep increasing the ratio. In 10 years, in my assessment that ratio will come down to about 3.5:1. Hence, you will be wise if you have a deal with India now.
As for your interference part, totally agree. USA had a huge role in precipitating the crisis earlier. But don't complain about propaganda. If you are loosing in propaganda, it is your fault, or weakness. Propaganda and Cultural warfare, are very much a part of modern day warfare. And that is precisely my point, you are not doing good in it. I find many many threads about the progress of China in different areas, but never do I find a thread about the shabby state of the Chinese film industry, or its publishing industry. You are today essentially importing a lot of culture from Japan, Korea and US.
Sorry my dear friend, while I completely recognize that there has been a lot of progress in many areas, my expectation for China has been much higher. Also, while wealth does play a huge role, the overall size of the industry is more important. Switzerland, Netherlands, or Australia have negligible cultural power, though they have a higher GDP percapita then United States.
Also, you can check anything, the state of entertainment industry, (industry and not market, chinese entertainment market is already 2nd largest in the world) of China is really shabby.
For example, while China's gdp is twice the size of Japan's, and GDP/capita a fifth, its corresponding manga industry is nowhere near the size of Japan. And remember absolute size matters more than the percapita. China's movie industry is not only behind the United States, it is also behind India's in many many metrics. Similarly with Korean pop culture etc. You are a heavy net importer of foreign entertainment and culture.