People are talking about media, movies and TV serials. I explain what is media actually.
Once a Darvesh thought to cut his penis, that it was root cause of every trouble. God put in his mind that if he cuts his penis, his heart will invent hundreds of other ways to create trouble. So he refrained from this act.
Media is like penis of society. We can't cut it, we can cover it but can't hide its erection. If we apply force on it, will cause damages. This is what happened in the tight regime of Gen. Zia:
"Britain’s colonial legacy in Pakistan left a thriving but dark commercial sector in the country’s capital, Karachi. Massoud Ansari investigates.
Prostitution was formalised for the first time in the Indian subcontinent by the British government in the mid-18th century. The British colonialists enacted special laws, created “red light” areas and assigned the task of protecting women sex workers to law-enforcing agencies. Municipalities overlooking the sex districts were given the responsibility of collecting taxes and providing health and sanitation services to the brothels.
As an independent Muslim state, Pakistan does not officially allow prostitution. Unofficially, however, the practice is prevalent all over the country, with the majority of the clientele ironically comprised of politicians, bureaucrats, police officials and army personnel; in short, the very people who are supposed to legislate and implement laws against the sex trade.
Until the late 1970s – when General Zia-ul-Haq embarked upon a drive to “Islamise” Pakistani society, closing down brothels to the public, red light areas – as a legacy of British rule – continued to be institutionalised.
A local sociologist explains: “With the closure of brothels to the public, the prostitutes – whose profession is often passed from generation to generation – dispersed to the cities’ residential areas to earn their livelihoods. With the passage of time, girls from impoverished families also came to join them.”
Then people talked about co education. Its in fact 'time' that has changed a lot. We'll have to learn how to live with the time, not close our eyes or walk against the time. For example after media, there's co education and then introduction of mobile phones:
"A case in point is “Auntie” Shamim. A one time call girl, she is today one of the best-known pimps in Karachi’s higher social strata.
In the initial years, Shamim had to work very hard not only for herself but also in order to cultivate enough contacts to begin her own operations with at least five girls in her employ.
Soon after she entered the world of commercial sex, Shamim bought herself a mobile phone and circulated her number among her clients.
“It’s all a game of contacts; the more connected you are, the better the business,” Shamim says. “The day I realised I had enough contacts, I started my own business…”
Now, Shamim boasts of having a select clientele among Karachi’s high and mighty. Her cell phone scarcely stops ringing in the evenings as she cruises the city’s upmarket localities, dropping girls at various given addresses.
The explosion in cell phones across the country have solved manifold problems for pimps and prostitutes."
All this technology aside, Kabeel killed Habeel for a woman, when it was just start of civilization. Human nature will always come into play. We'll have to act like that Darvesh and concentrate on our heart instead of penis.
How to train and leash the heart? Hunger is the main tool, but what's hunger of society that put society on specific track. As civilization and economic activities increase in the society, there's flow of resources which increase the vigor of society. Only way is to provide channels that absorb the vigor.
